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Woah...
I can't believe this is how girls are making rishta decisions...
The only rishta criteria these days is how much money a guy makes!
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guy looked at me 1st time n fell in love so deeply dont knw why as im not so much pretty.
With all due respect OP, the above sounds rather far fetched and a bit ridiculous. So the gentleman saw you and in that moment fell so deeply in love with you that he became certain that you are the person he wants to spend the rest of his life and have children with? Doesn't this sound strange to you?
Any person who would base a decision as important as marriage solely on a person's appearance or this "love at first sight" tripe is not very mature and still has quite a bit of growing up to do. Quite frankly, such a person is not ready for marriage. I'd suggest they stop watching so many bollywood films and thoroughly consider their decision. Marriage is a lifelong commitment and not something to be taken lightly or entered into based on infatuation.
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Woah...
I can't believe this is how girls are making rishta decisions...
You are too PCG. Don't judge the girl.
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First she said he lives in Jahur with his brother then she said he lives in Egypt.. ?
I think op is laughing at all of us for even bothering to answer. Where do these trolls come from..
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First she said he lives in Jahur with his brother then she said he lives in Egypt.. ?
I think op is laughing at all of us for even bothering to answer. Where do these trolls come from..
excuse me! im v thankful to those who gave me replies.. ok
he lives in jauhar with his brother but recently moved to egypt bcoz he got job there.
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Not to speak of talking to potential spouse ,in our shallow society people are made to choose their life partners without even seeing them.
May I suggest arranging a meeting with both guys followed by Istakhara?
Don’t go in blind .
Who would you feel comfortable with?
Who is more respectful towards family and his subordinates?
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yes im going for istakhara 1st then will make decision.
both are v respectful towards my family.
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There is something fishy about number 1, no upper middle class person in this day and age, does a job of Rs /20,000. I am paying our live in maasi 20,000 per month currently. And how do u know he really loves u? And his mom is not making it up? R u sure it's their house and not a rented one.
no im not sure about their house... but they honestly mentioned his salary and education dts y i think they said right abt their home. we asked and they said it is their own house
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Again. ... did they not have money enough to educate their boy?
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what can i say.... there r many guys who dont focus on their education and leave education
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what can i say.... there r many guys who dont focus on their education and leave education
Well that would be a guy worth staying away from. But a guy who is interested in educating himself and is smart and is respectful to you, and your personalities are compatible, and you share similar views on religion/politics/cultural values, then even if he lives in gulshan jauhar, he's worth it.
What's wrong with folks from Gulshan anyway? I have relatives and friends from those areas and they're quality people.
Not everyone worth marrying is from defence.
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Well that would be a guy worth staying away from. But a guy who is interested in educating himself and is smart and is respectful to you, and your personalities are compatible, and you share similar views on religion/politics/cultural values, then even if he lives in gulshan jauhar, he's worth it.
What's wrong with folks from Gulshan anyway? I have relatives and friends from those areas and they're quality people.
Not everyone worth marrying is from defence.
u r right.... i dnt have any problem marrying sum1 who lives in gulshan or jauhar... i was just providing details about proposals as they are arranged. well i m finding arranged proposals quite confusing. its difficult to make a decision that can make me happy in arranged proposals. :(
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Again. ... did they not have money enough to educate their boy?
Speaking very generally it's not that uncommon for wealthy business people to not be too bothered about their kids going to uni..
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u r right.... i dnt have any problem marrying sum1 who lives in gulshan or jauhar... i was just providing details about proposals as they are arranged. well i m finding arranged proposals quite confusing. its difficult to make a decision that can make me happy in arranged proposals. :(
Maybe because you're looking at the wrong factors.
Talk to the guy, and ask yourself, career/money/living location/family background aside - DO YOU WANT TO WAKE UP TO THIS MAN EVERY MORNING, AND SHARE EVERYTHING WITH HIM INCLUDING YOUR PROGENY?
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I guess I'm the only one who is into poor guys with minimal bank balances but good character and education/intelligence.
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Maybe because you're looking at the wrong factors.
Talk to the guy, and ask yourself, career/money/living location/family background aside - DO YOU WANT TO WAKE UP TO THIS MAN EVERY MORNING, AND SHARE EVERYTHING WITH HIM INCLUDING YOUR PROGENY?
not sure :(((
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u r right.... i dnt have any problem marrying sum1 who lives in gulshan or jauhar... i was just providing details about proposals as they are arranged. well i m finding arranged proposals quite confusing. its difficult to make a decision that can make me happy in arranged proposals. :(
not sure :(((
Have you actually SPOKEN to either guy? Not their families, but to the guys themselves? Speaking to someone directly gives you a better idea of what they're really like than speaking to their families, who are likely to sing praises about them, even if they are not praiseworthy.
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Yes every family will boast about their son.
You said you're educated. What are you educated in?
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^In making gool rotis.
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MBBS: Miyan Biwi Bachein Sameth.