stupid old me!

[ll_xx_ll]

Re: stupid old me!

this is what i was asking you NOT to do… the way i was trying to bring about the change would have been slow but it would work…

what you’re doing is only going to cause him to get more more on the defensive and more and more annoyed with you.

I felt like you had started to do well until you “spoke to hubby”… BLAST i wish you hadnt done that… can you go back to trying to make friends with MIL and SIL … just dont complain to him …only show him that you’re making efforts to bridge the gap between you and MIL/SIL trust me he will come around but he will never ever ever believe that his mom and sis are deliberately not giving you milkshake (or whatever else they do to make u feel left out) however he will appreciate you for your efforts …if u try to make him “see” how his Mom and sis are with u that will only cause a wider rift between u and him

but u trying to make friends with mom and sis will bridge watever tiny “gap” the both of you have amongst urselves (u and ur hubby)

@nadz123

Ok spke to hubby last nite just made things worse. He did try to explain things to me he was assuming a defence for them but then said he wasn’t defending them I told him about thje milkshake thing he said oh its not like that they dnt mean this or that he doesn’t get it at all. In the end I got frustrated so did he. I went into another conversation about hje doesn’t spend enuff time with me hwo he doesn’t care after disagreeing with everything I said he said just turn around and go slp I had enuff, this prompted a new wave of tears from me. He went to slp. Dnt know wat to do reall_.