Re: stupid old me!
I agree that is rude, they should have asked if you wanted milkshake too.
Nadz you are going to have to face facts, they don’t like you. You can’t control their behaviour you can only control your own, yes it is mean for them to block you out but why can’t you get a life of your own that does not revlove around been accepted by them. Be a bit selfless, be nice to them and expect nothing in return, find your own happyness.
Get out there and establish yourself as an independent women responsible for your own happyness.
You could learn to sew and start a home business selling suits, that way you could meet lots of new women.
Tutor local children in your area in English, you could pick up lots of pushtu from the children too.
The truth is Nadz if you were happy within yourself nothing your mil or sil does would affect you.