Re: stupid old me!
Masha Allah she is. She really put in a lot of her time, love & effort for this outcome. And yes my family treats her like me and i love that. I dont understand nadz, why should you even be jealous of it. I feel relaxed that after i will get married, there will be some one who would take care of my parents and my brother. I feel good that she wouldnt let them miss me that much.
Also - She just has a few months to live with her brother & parents, let her have those the way she wants. Its a little compromise from your end but which will put you in good books in future. Now is your time to be the best bhabi - start shopping with her, find new designs for clothes that she can make for her wedding, take her to beauty parlours for survey, get nice wedding gifts for her, if its her birthday make her a cake and do special things. If you make her feel special, your husband will recognize your efforts for sure.