You know what I think? I think you love your husband and just want all of his attention to yourself. Its kinda nice.
But you want to make sure he doesnt take you for granted - which it seems like he is. If he did the same thing you do to him, your threads would read “omg, hubby wont leave me alone and get a life!”
Ease off a bit. He has one sister and guys usually are very loving towards their sisters especially if she is the only one and the youngest. Its not abnormal. She is getting married soon anyway.
My suggestion is, just give him some space. Let him miss you sometimes. Busy yourself with things, classes, hobbies, painting, sewing, kids groups, writing, start a blog, become a MUA, etc etc etc. You have 4 years there, do something for yourself in the meantime to feel like you are not just a mother, wife, DIL and bhabi.
You really do need to take responsibility of things you can help in your situation and do something about them actively. Dont just complain.
If he did the same thing you do to him, your threads would read “omg, hubby wont leave me alone and get a life!” 