Re: stupid old me!
Is it normal to feel jealous or annoyed at your spouses closeness or his banter with his sister/|?
Hes always chatting to her, shes his only and younger sister, but i would prefer he didnt have that with her, and only with me..i know it sounds mad, but its a feeling i have. he doesnt talk to me with the same affection in front of others, but with her, he would laugh and joke around, it gets on my nerves. i understand that most husbands dont go around showing affection to their wives infront of others-such as massaging her, giving her a kiss( forehead?) or just holding her hand, but they can show affection to their siblings?
what annoys me most if i say i want to go get icecream/clothes/go out whatever- he will say `ok in 10 mins/ok in 1 hour/ not now, later/after this match/etc etc
if his sis says same thing- he pretty much gets up there and then…( ok so he needs to be pushed, but if she pushes him he doesnt respond in the same way as he would if i push him)
grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
he needs to only talk to me…wish i could stop him from being so cosey with her and his mother…:*
Sometimes I wish my husband would talk more to his siblings and mom so I could be spared of being the middleman
. He wants me to do all the work 
. Trust me, it isn’t always fun. You’re lucky. Just because he loves his sis and ma doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you. You cannot replace them; they cannot replace you.