Thankyou for your response. Reading your story really made me feel better cause at least there is a light at the end of a tunnel. I guess my thing is that I am not that good at standing up for myself. And I guess what bothers me is that when I don't do anything to provoke any incident it really bothers me. I am sorry if by my post it upset you or made you go into details of your life that you will rather forget.
I guess we should just pray that no one has to go through this again. But i guess for that aunty i feel that god will get her one day.
(I think)
hi, im so srry that u had to hear such stuff i myself have been through such statments i was a bicharee??? 4 a very long time till i went to a quran khani things i had stopped going to cos i was a bicharee and my daughter was also a bicharee so i walked in and u hear it from the other corner of the room kaisee ho beta bicharee choti umar mei talaq aur bachi b bicharee hai o-k so it was enough at this point i said to my mom im sorry and to the aunty that im not the bicharee app apni beti ko zara dekhe jo shaddi ke bad 3 bache paida karke pir b khush nahin hai has no freedom whatsoever i think she is the bicharee aur agar ab b kisi ko lagta hai ke mei bicharee hoo to Allah talla se dua karo app ki betiyan meri tara bicharee na ho jai...........that was it never heard it again no comment i stood up 2 my comments as yrs passed these aunties got the daughters married n as we all no do bartan ho to shor to hoga then i used to say i bet u wish yeh b meri tara bicharia hojai when the mothers would complain meri hasti kelti bachi ki zindagi kgarab ho gayi shaadi ke bad up theirs the whole lot of them ur comment about what the aunty said i relative said it 2 me 2 yrs later i went to their hous big fight going on i said hanji ab bole ap ne kabhie kaha tha u think well b4 u marry ur kids?? yeh socha tha dnt let any1 put U down my ex stabbed me im lucky 2 b alive i forgave him after my hajj and now immarried mashalla again to a man that loves my child like his own AND L;OVES ME 2 (MASHALLA) once again its each person to themselves nxt time tell them where 2 go has ke.... SORRY ITS SO LONG BUT IM SO PISSED UR POST MADE ME CRY I DNT CRY EASILY NOW