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Zash - just ignore the stupid woman. She has a narrow mind and obviously a cold heart and is beneath you.
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i can imagiine you totally wanting to rip her face off because even i am gettig angry
but look at it this wayy
she obviously dosnt have the decensy to have a polite conversation so why bother.
Her insentivity proves that shes just a awaste of timee.
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Hi Zash,
I hope you're not going to let this lady get under your skin and bring you down. Someone once told me that such people treat others like this because they themselves are so bitter/miserable on the inside. And it makes sense. Happy and secure people don't treat others in a crappy way. Know what I mean? Even though this woman will soon be celebrating a joyous occasion, she's probably very bitter on the inside for some reason... and feels the need to bring others down as well. Instead of dwelling over what this pathetic woman said, you should be feeling SORRY *for her soon to be daughter-in-law. * Maybe she's so bitter about some girl "stealing" her son that she has to take it out on others.
Zash, everything happens according to Allah's plans, okay? Your divorce was actually a liberation from some loser guy you never wanted to marry in the first place. This woman that you spoke to is very very very very ARROGANT! She has no sensitivity for others. And her comment reflects that she doesn't seem to believe that it is ALLAH **who is ultimately in charge of **ALL affairs. Does this woman have any daughters of her own? How can she say something like that to another girl? Absolutely pathetic. What a low life!
Somebody once said that, "I know God exists because after trying my best to make sure that things go according to my plans.....something happens that throws everything off. And that's how I know that I'm not the one who has ultimate control of my destiny" You never know, Zash. Maybe Allah will teach this cow a lesson since she so ARROGANTLY believes that **SHE **is the one to see things through. Maybe her son's marriage won't be that successful. Maybe this woman and her family will soon encounter problems to make them realize that sometimes you can't see everything through on your own.
I agree with Psquared and Desi_Beautii **in the sense that you should have said something simple and classy to put her into her place. But sometimes the shock of another person's stupidity stuns us to silence. If she pulls crap like this again,you make sure to put her in her place! And then just act like she's **vapor and doesn't exist.
Just reading your post makes me mad and I've never even seen the frickin jinn-cow! Save your mental energy worrying about the people that** sincerely** care about you. This woman is not worth your time. What ever goes around eventually comes around.....what goes up must come down.......and the higher up you go, the HARDER the fall.....especially for narcissistic types like her!
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So I am guessing you are probably not going to get an invitation to the wedding.
wow thats nasty.
i would say you could spit her in the face and pretend it was a sneeze.
LOL. Nasty but hilarious! :D
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Oh and here's another point.........the woman's comment "My dear, we unlike you, like to see things through," makes no sense. Two people can get a divorce before the official wedding/rukhsati is over. And at the same time.....two people can go through all the wedding preparations....and a couple years later end up in divorce.
So would a future divorce, years down the road, mean that one wasn't able to "see things through".....???? Life is so unpredictable that it's hard to see many things through successfully. This woman is of low intelligence. She likes to sound smart, but if you think about her response....it reflects very little analytical intelligence.
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hi, im so srry that u had to hear such stuff i myself have been through such statments i was a bicharee??? 4 a very long time till i went to a quran khani things i had stopped going to cos i was a bicharee and my daughter was also a bicharee so i walked in and u hear it from the other corner of the room kaisee ho beta bicharee choti umar mei talaq aur bachi b bicharee hai o-k so it was enough at this point i said to my mom im sorry and to the aunty that im not the bicharee app apni beti ko zara dekhe jo shaddi ke bad 3 bache paida karke pir b khush nahin hai has no freedom whatsoever i think she is the bicharee aur agar ab b kisi ko lagta hai ke mei bicharee hoo to Allah talla se dua karo app ki betiyan meri tara bicharee na ho jai...........that was it never heard it again no comment i stood up 2 my comments as yrs passed these aunties got the daughters married n as we all no do bartan ho to shor to hoga then i used to say i bet u wish yeh b meri tara bicharia hojai when the mothers would complain meri hasti kelti bachi ki zindagi kgarab ho gayi shaadi ke bad up theirs the whole lot of them ur comment about what the aunty said i relative said it 2 me 2 yrs later i went to their hous big fight going on i said hanji ab bole ap ne kabhie kaha tha u think well b4 u marry ur kids?? yeh socha tha dnt let any1 put U down my ex stabbed me im lucky 2 b alive i forgave him after my hajj and now immarried mashalla again to a man that loves my child like his own AND L;OVES ME 2 (MASHALLA) once again its each person to themselves nxt time tell them where 2 go has ke.... SORRY ITS SO LONG BUT IM SO PISSED UR POST MADE ME CRY I DNT CRY EASILY NOW
Thankyou for your response. Reading your story really made me feel better cause at least there is a light at the end of a tunnel. I guess my thing is that I am not that good at standing up for myself. And I guess what bothers me is that when I don't do anything to provoke any incident it really bothers me. I am sorry if by my post it upset you or made you go into details of your life that you will rather forget.
I guess we should just pray that no one has to go through this again. But i guess for that aunty i feel that god will get her one day.
(I think)
hi, im so srry that u had to hear such stuff i myself have been through such statments i was a bicharee??? 4 a very long time till i went to a quran khani things i had stopped going to cos i was a bicharee and my daughter was also a bicharee so i walked in and u hear it from the other corner of the room kaisee ho beta bicharee choti umar mei talaq aur bachi b bicharee hai o-k so it was enough at this point i said to my mom im sorry and to the aunty that im not the bicharee app apni beti ko zara dekhe jo shaddi ke bad 3 bache paida karke pir b khush nahin hai has no freedom whatsoever i think she is the bicharee aur agar ab b kisi ko lagta hai ke mei bicharee hoo to Allah talla se dua karo app ki betiyan meri tara bicharee na ho jai...........that was it never heard it again no comment i stood up 2 my comments as yrs passed these aunties got the daughters married n as we all no do bartan ho to shor to hoga then i used to say i bet u wish yeh b meri tara bicharia hojai when the mothers would complain meri hasti kelti bachi ki zindagi kgarab ho gayi shaadi ke bad up theirs the whole lot of them ur comment about what the aunty said i relative said it 2 me 2 yrs later i went to their hous big fight going on i said hanji ab bole ap ne kabhie kaha tha u think well b4 u marry ur kids?? yeh socha tha dnt let any1 put U down my ex stabbed me im lucky 2 b alive i forgave him after my hajj and now immarried mashalla again to a man that loves my child like his own AND L;OVES ME 2 (MASHALLA) once again its each person to themselves nxt time tell them where 2 go has ke.... SORRY ITS SO LONG BUT IM SO PISSED UR POST MADE ME CRY I DNT CRY EASILY NOW
Thanks guys
I really had a bad week, it was driving me crazy. I guess that at the moment the world has driven me to my knees and stupid comments don't help. Really appreciative of all your support. Thankyou
May allah make all your wildest dreams come true, Amin,.
hi, im so srry that u had to hear such stuff i myself have been through such statments i was a bicharee??? 4 a very long time till i went to a quran khani things i had stopped going to cos i was a bicharee and my daughter was also a bicharee so i walked in and u hear it from the other corner of the room kaisee ho beta bicharee choti umar mei talaq aur bachi b bicharee hai o-k so it was enough at this point i said to my mom im sorry and to the aunty that im not the bicharee app apni beti ko zara dekhe jo shaddi ke bad 3 bache paida karke pir b khush nahin hai has no freedom whatsoever i think she is the bicharee aur agar ab b kisi ko lagta hai ke mei bicharee hoo to Allah talla se dua karo app ki betiyan meri tara bicharee na ho jai...........that was it never heard it again no comment i stood up 2 my comments as yrs passed these aunties got the daughters married n as we all no do bartan ho to shor to hoga then i used to say i bet u wish yeh b meri tara bicharia hojai when the mothers would complain meri hasti kelti bachi ki zindagi kgarab ho gayi shaadi ke bad up theirs the whole lot of them ur comment about what the aunty said i relative said it 2 me 2 yrs later i went to their hous big fight going on i said hanji ab bole ap ne kabhie kaha tha u think well b4 u marry ur kids?? yeh socha tha dnt let any1 put U down my ex stabbed me im lucky 2 b alive i forgave him after my hajj and now immarried mashalla again to a man that loves my child like his own AND L;OVES ME 2 (MASHALLA) once again its each person to themselves nxt time tell them where 2 go has ke.... SORRY ITS SO LONG BUT IM SO PISSED UR POST MADE ME CRY I DNT CRY EASILY NOW
hey Congrats for ur marriage :)..may ALLAH bless u and ur family..and her buri nazar se bachaye..ameen sum ameen :)...
zash we all are ur friends 
…so why do u care about othr peoples…
Insha’ALLAH evrything will be good for u..…
I fail to understand how sum ppl can be so mean and cold hearted, wht wud make any1 say sumthing like tht unprovoked or provoked. Anyway ignore her Zash01 , just have sabr :)
she'll get wht's cuming at her!!
Hey guys i ca empahzize with the both ladies above.
But the truth why people get so mean is cos they r PROUD.
I really Feel for Zash, may Allah tala give u justice and scoon and quickly.
I actually think the oldhag who mad eu the comment, might have thought that you re jealous etc, and inside 'woundnt want to see thier weeding through'.
Maybe why she said it.
And i cnt belive sombodies husband stabbed them..? why the hell?
Bck to post; Althugh its still extrmly mean. If u cnt get the hags comment off ur head still. u will when u return the crap..
il give u some sharp tips later. Me profsnal in this.
gotta run now.
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what goes around comes around ignore her and close this topic :-)
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Zash.
U Should Phone have a nice 'mittee' chat with the person who invited you to that function.
Then them that you will not be able to make it to thier subsequent fucntion/gathering.
When they get all conerend and ask why they wnt be having your pleasure.
Obviusly you are valuable to them as they invited you.
Tell them, because of so-and-so old ladies insulting, needless comment, you felt very bad bad, and you wont be able to nor want to face that lady again.
If the person really values u, sob even more infront of them.
Then let that person phone and snap at the old-fart-pig fce.
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Hey sorry to hear about your divorce...
& don't let this comment get to you, remember** what goes around comes around...**