Stuck up girls

[Aish]

Re: Stuck up girls

sanu ek pal chain na aave, sajna teray bina

[Mrs_Saieen]

"I've started to notice that there are quite a few girls 'round here (thankfully still a minority) who are so stuck up and so into themselves..."

Who's looking down on a secretary or fast food worker? Maybe I missed that?

You dont know a single person who thinks they're better than everybody because of what school they went to, what field they work in, what job they have?

Like I said....majority of the women i know are down to earth and humble (whether they work or not) and dont have such an attitude..but its those few who do. They give working/professional women a bad name....

As for looking down on secretary/fast food workers these are the posts I was referring to. I dont know ANY job thats easy and at the same time ridiculously overpaid.

@cherryontop

*^ So true; people look down upon these women who work in stores and factories but they are out there leading the toughest life because they need to work to make sure their family has a good life and be there for their own family. *

It's not about being 'successful' in your career. Women should respect each other no matter what role they have chosen to take on in this life.

@PyariCgudia

Now, yeah, I guess if you compare raising kids and keeping house to being some **bored secretary who gets paid to thumb through magazines, or some other ridiculously easy job which is ridiculously overpaid, **then sure, maybe in comparison raising kids is more difficult.

[Niksik]

sanu ek pal chain na aave, sajna teray bina

saanu kaleya jee nayo lagda...sajnaaaaaaaaaaaaaa terey binaaaaaaaaaa aaa!!

[fat_spartan]

@Oz1217

I’ve started to notice that there are quite a few girls 'round here (thankfully still a minority) who are so stuck up and so into themselves…they look down on any woman who is less educated or married early or stays at home wtih their children, or quit her job. they roast anybody who has an opinion that differs from there. Every single one of these women who has this attitude is a self-professed “educated, career, modern” woman. I mean…isn’t that an insult to real educated/career women, the majority of whom aren’t like that? Why are htey so miserable and stuck up?

My guess is there are a few things that contribute to this:

1. The said people are probably judgemental of others anyway.
2. Possibly some other personal problems making them miserable.
3. They spent a lot of time and effort on their education/career and therefore it holds a lot of value to them (possibly more than it does from someone’s perspective aside from their own).
4. They think it gives them value, therefore those who don’t have what they do (by striving for it like they did) don’t have the same value as they do (in their eyes).

[Reha]

@Aishaaa2.1

sanu ek pal chain na aave, sajna teray bina

@Niksik

saanu kaleya jee nayo lagda…sajnaaaaaaaaaaaaaa terey binaaaaaaaaaa aaa!!

[DramayBazz]

@Reha

Productive successful professional…what does this mean exactly? You’re productive during your day, successful at what you do and a professional. How is that different from motherhood? They are not productive when they are taking care of their children? They are not successful when their children go to college and turn into decent members of society like you?

Why would you take away value from the family structure we so prize in our culture? Its one thing we pride ourselves on…our families and how we pay attention to our children in every aspect of their life. This IS the correct way of doing things. Stay at home mothers are doing what they should be doing and probably contributing more to society and our future then you or I am.

:k:

[chanda_kh]

Re: Stuck up girls

think of the PC-MAC debate......both are equally productive..depends who owns one..there is a reason for both to be around-everyone is different- everyone's needs are different.....and neither is superior...we only have choices based on our needs...so there cant be either/or...

[njgal]

Re: Stuck up girls

what's wrong with being stuck up and miserable? sheeessshh

[pkgrl000]

it seems there are 3 type of girls being referred to in this thread

1. girls who suck cuz they work and think they're better than the dependent stay at home wives/moms

2. girls who suck cuz they stay at home and look down on the working woman cuz she's too selfish to make sacrifices for her family

3. girls who hate on both type 1 and type 2 and think they're better than everybody cuz they can look past the judgemental hateful type of gals out there.

sooo isn't everyone judging everyone? i mean, maybe we should all be more understanding of the "stuckup" types cuz they're soo insecure but its like if we're thinking that the stuck up ones are worse than us cuz they have insecurities aren't we ourselves just making ourselves feel better? seems like one long cycle of girls hating on each other and trying to prove they are better.

[Niksik]

it seems there are 3 type of girls being referred to in this thread

1. girls who suck cuz they work and think they're better than the dependent stay at home wives/moms

2. girls who suck cuz they stay at home and look down on the working woman cuz she's too selfish to make sacrifices for her family

3. girls who hate on both type 1 and type 2 and think they're better than everybody cuz they can look past the judgemental hateful type of gals out there.

sooo isn't everyone judging everyone? i mean, maybe we should all be more understanding of the "stuckup" types cuz they're soo insecure but its like if we're thinking that the stuck up ones are worse than us cuz they have insecurities aren't we ourselves just making ourselves feel better? seems like one long cycle of girls hating on each other and trying to prove they are better.

That's women for ya :D

[southland786]

Re: Stuck up girls

I agree that many women who don't work have a lot more to offer in life, and could do with being more productive to society, which doesn't necessarily mean doing some stupid office job at a big capitalist firm slaving for some whitecollarman for whom productivity = a*bigbonusinhispocket*. However, being a full time mother is hard work and in no way to be underestimated, it's not only about feeding kids and folding their nappies and wiping their poo, kids need to be constantly supervised. Serious **** hits the fan when the mum realises her 2 year old took a swig at a bottle of calpol when she stepped outside the room for half a second, or when her 5 month old accidentally swallowed a metal key ring while playing. It is really naive to disregard the amount of effort a mother puts in for her children and to discount the seriousness of her job.

[Muzna]

Re: Stuck up girls

easy .... difficult ....... isn't it all relative?

What may be easy for me could be very difficult for another.......be it a pot of daal or a boardroom brawl. How can we sit here and compare?

I've grazed on both sides of the fence and there are pros and cons either way.

My personal opinion? The priority of the role should determine which is more "important" rather than difficult. Is it more important for a woman to contribute to the financial well-being of her family unit by having a career or is it more important for her to remain at home and focus her efforts on the children? My answer: the children win. So which job is tougher? Minding the home and rearing children to be healthy, wholesome individuals.

[MIAinVA]

it seems there are 3 type of girls being referred to in this thread

1. girls who suck cuz they work and think they're better than the dependent stay at home wives/moms

2. girls who suck cuz they stay at home and look down on the working woman cuz she's too selfish to make sacrifices for her family

3. girls who hate on both type 1 and type 2 and think they're better than everybody cuz they can look past the judgemental hateful type of gals out there.

sooo isn't everyone judging everyone? i mean, maybe we should all be more understanding of the "stuckup" types cuz they're soo insecure but its like if we're thinking that the stuck up ones are worse than us cuz they have insecurities aren't we ourselves just making ourselves feel better? seems like one long cycle of girls hating on each other and trying to prove they are better.

Its a competitive world out there after all

[AnjanaSaDil]

PCG…no offense but, out of curiousity…after reading this whole thread, i HAVE to ask…exactly WHAT is your job? what do you do that makes u sound like the busiest and most ''STRESSED" woman in the world?? wat are you, like a CEO of a multi billion dollar company or something??

[Dubaiwali]

@chanda_kh

think of the PC-MAC debate…both are equally productive..depends who owns one..there is a reason for both to be around-everyone is different- everyone’s needs are different…and neither is superior…we only have choices based on our needs…so there cant be either/or…

:k:

[CM]

Re: Stuck up girls

Oz1217 they put others down because they feel they are missing out on a big part of life. If they ridicule you and others who place their families before their careers they feel that they are not making a mistake.