Re: Strictness?
Clubbing and dating were only two examples I mentioned, they weren’t all I’m limiting the possibilities to. I’m all for educated women, as they make better companions, and even independence. I have two older sisters, I’m the only and youngest son, and they are both extremely independent. One of them was a previous Miss Pakistan (runs her own business now) and another trains models, teaches in a high school, mash’Allah has two beautiful girls, and is married, yet she still works full-time with her husband. I know well about the beauties of independent women.
But don’t take what I said out of context, sister, I never implied that marriage was the only solution, simply that it is the best solution. I never said that not choosing to get married young is against Islam, and astaghferullah I never pointed fingers at anyone claiming they’re not being Muslim. You’ve taken everything I said out of context completely. Please point out to me where I accused you or anyone of not being Muslim?
I would like to know though, since you’re in such disagreement with me. What solutions would you provide to her? She can continue her education, but that will not change the problems at home with her parents. She can bare with it and finish her education then get married, but then that would still be implementing my solution. Unless you disagree with that too?