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the OP doesn't want a comprehensive sex guide. she just wants to know if it's going to hurt or not.

OP - are people put off sex after the first time? No. so we can safely say that it's not gonna hurt that much that you're never going to want to do it again.

Don't think about whether it's going to hurt or not. You have muscles down there same as anywhere else and if you are tense, they will contract and stuff will be more difficult and more painful. Catskin gave you some good advice.

Sex ed in the west is all about safe sex, not getting std's and not getting pregnant.

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there are some people who genuinely have no idea about sex whatsoever. I grew up in Pakistan and the only channel i had access to was PTV.. did watch some bollywood movies here and there but they all were pretty 'clean' and "rape" was something that a villian would do to a heroine ( that too was limited to u know tearing up their clothes.. like no actual act) I did know about "Romance" and u know making out but no clue about the "real deal"

here in US, they have offered us one session of Sex ed and only thing they talked about was STD's and stuff.. I literally slept through it because it was all new to me most of the time they used double meaning words.. chicken breast? ( i mean come on).. new terminology.. slang words .. wasnt useful at all.

So ya i got to know about it through a friend of mine when i was 18 and it was really shocking.. had to spread the word u know and called my best friend back home who was 20 then and she thought i've gone crazy or something..

SO the point is if girls dont know about it.. does not always mean they trying to pretend shareefzadi or something

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WTH, are you on your period or what? What's up with the attitude!

I never said you were dirty minded I'm from an european country too and come from a good family, you're not the only decent girl in the world. I misunderstood you before and thought you said you didnt know about sex at all and I got a "holier than thou" vibe from you that everyone had to be dirty minded to know about it.

I skipped over all your urdu because it frankly was an eyesore.

Good Luck.

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Jazakallah Brother very nice share..:k:

i glanced the book…i must say…it has been written very well…and with great wisdom including both religious and scientific authenticity…

and found the following points of great importance…
i believe my fellow guppans will implement the suggestions in full when its time to consummate ..

Page-33-34

If you do it while standing up…the kids born will be mentally retarded..so its highly recommended not to do it while standing up

If you talk while doing it…there is a very real possiblity that the child born will not be able to speak and suffer speech problems

if your husband looks at your private parts… the kids born will be blind…

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Thank you Nomi, it is really nice to see that at least one person got some knowledge from my post.

yes, i read it and i also like the idea of birth control prescribed in book.

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yes ...

book also says..

if you do it with no clothes at all........your kids will be immoral........

and woman is on top is worst position............it could damage the guy.....

also there are very useful and important medicines mentioned at the end of the book...

this book should be taught in schoool.........scientfic accuracy and ethics combined into one gem of a book........

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aiaiai, nomi i don't even know if you're being serious or not.

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whatever i wrote stoppit.......is accurate translation of what is written in the book........if you don't believe me......u go check those pages...and get someone to read it and translate for u.......

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ok... so the next question is, is STA being serious :|

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stoppit: i m serious. can you read urdu?

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No, I can't. I'm trusting nomi's translation.

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he translated correctly.

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sis stoppit,

Ok I found one in English too, author is different. I quickly scan it and found similar to Urdu one except few topics of medicine are missing.

Link: http://www.archive.org/stream/SexualRelationsMarriedLifeByShaykhMusaKarmadi/Sexual-Relations-Married-Life-by-Sheikh-Musa-Karmadi

Let me know if you find it helpful.

jazaAllah khair

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:eek: :eek: :eek:

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ab app ko kiya howa?

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:rolleyes:

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Nevamind.

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here..check this out

http://www.paklinks.com/gs/audio-video-chat/539238-chat-event-a-lecture-on-intimacy.html#post8671762

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Hey all,

I do apologise to those who think the title of the thread is un-appropriate I will change it if I can work out how to do it.... I would greatly appreciate it if men could keep off this thread....

I would like those who have given proper feedback and have helped me, I'm not open about these kind of things and feel really embarrassed talking to my mum or sisters about it....