Re: stress with the in-laws to be already
nadz i think you dont want to move to Pakistan so your brain finds a millions reasons to complain about to somehow change that fact, there is nothing anyone can do that u can complain about that will make your husband change his mind about moving to Pakistan if thats what he wants. You shouldve made it perfectly clear to your parents that you arent willing to move and they should find you someone who wants to live here.
You need to think of the big picture that youre getting your husband and if he rele matters to you then you wont care where you live how much gold u get what presents he gets you...