Re: strange relationship
^^ I don't think u should rush into marriage jus yet - get to kno him first a bit more - u mentioned u've been engaged 4months - so have u set a date yet? mujhe lagta he ke tumhein apne gharwalo seh baat karni chahiyeh - bcos its been 4months and after all like u said he claimed he will change u, but u know it wouldnt be so easy for him to change u - so wat are u doing? don't feel trapped - it is far better for u to speak up now and end relationship if u have to then to carry on, get married n then end up divorcing him bcos of d fact dat u r too totally different personalities... besides if he cares for u, he will respect the fact that u were open and honest and spoke up before u got married... trust me, u need to talk to either your family, his family, him or a 3rd party.... good luck n let us all know how you got on.
Thank you very much sweety, I dnt feel trapped honestly but I feel for him, I have spoken to him about tht and he just laughed, he said I shouldnt think about it because he is fine with it as long I am happy with this relationship :-)
date hasnt been set yet but its not any time soon, most probably after I am done with degree