she hasnt made a big effort to get to know me, or to make me comfy or to make me feel like a daughter, shes not rude to me, but shes jsut quiet and makes small talk. they are a quiet family by nature anyway, but im new so they should make more of an effort.
You are lucky that u have a quiet MIL , let her be quiet .....it's good for u !! :)
Don't expect so much from your inlaws . If they aren't bothering you by anything then its shd be good enough for u. You are also new to them I think there is hesitation on both sides. Seriously , girls face much worse problem after marriage than what you have written above is not even a problem. If they dont make effort and u so much badly want to get to know them the u can make 1st effort. Otherwise , I dont think u have naything to be worried about , enjoy your marraige life ......:)