Re: Still Feeling Unsure
Uhm wtf? She’s talking about forced marriages and arranged marriages where the people involved don’t actually use their brains. I agree in many cases there are like this but the people involved would be fools not to see it before or they ignore the obvious. It’s happened with one of my cousins and I told her straight away that she was going to regret it but she didn’t listen.
The thing that everyone, including inspiron, seem to be overlooking is that he doesn’t seem to have a strong affinity for Pakistan. Aside from being in the UK for the last six years and in a successful professional job, he spent some of his upbringing in the middle east. And if he would move out of the UK, that’s where he would consider going back.
You can get men who are like that (as described on that web page) even if they have been born and bought up in the UK.
And what is she talking about a russian person wouldn’t marry a chinese person? Virtually all the marriages in my wider friend’s circle are between completely different cultures and there’s no reason for them not to be successful.
That site is extremely biased towards men and women living in Pakistan. It’s full of ridiculous generalisations and it seems to be insisting that all Pakistanis in Pakistan are jahil and backwards.