Re: Stigma against lack of maternal feelings
feel exactly same here....even at this age i feel like having children will take away my freedom and i won't be able to enjoy life. But when i think of having children i do think of having a perfect life first. I mean i gotta be perfect for my family, perfect in the kitchen, perfect in my career and i must have travelled everywhere in the world. And after reaching all the heights if i feel i've got have lot of time in my hands then i will think of having kids. There is always so much chaos and always so much to do in the world...i don't see how one can handle having kids. I love kids...and i do go crazy over them...funny thing is i have imagined myself to be a good mother and how i would handle my kids etc..i am sure all girls think that way....but i can't bring myself down to have a kid with me all the time lol...i guess i have a phobia with this kind of responsibilty.