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Can't speak for all women. When a guy asks a girl to hang out with his friends and she doesn't know them yet - I'd interpret it as "he is really interested in me because he wants me to get to know his circle of friends or he just thinks I'm a really cool person - depends"
if I already knew his friends, I wouldn't make anything of it.
It also depends on the vibe a girl gets from a guy. A girl can always tell if a guy is diggin' her. Getting him to admit it is the hard part.
hmm PCG,
interesting analysis, :k:
I’d interpret it as "he is really interested in me because he wants me to get to know his circle of friends
this sounds good right? and the girl, if she isnt exactly repelled by the guy, should like it right…?
and what course of action can be expected? and what would that signal?
or he just thinks I’m a really cool person - depends"
in this case, is this a positive thing that the girls feeling cool about her self and is getting an ego boost or could it be negative that she may think the guy doesnt have a life, and is a bore, and might end up thinking too much of herself and too little of the guy…?
It also depends on the vibe a girl gets from a guy. A girl can always tell if a guy is diggin’ her. Getting him to admit it is the hard part.
so if the girl knows the guys interested, and the guy though not firing heavy signals is implying through little gestures, what does a girl want to be done? does she want the guy to open up and be straight forward with it? admit it and talk and see where it goes or wouls she prefer him keeping silent…
im quite confused these days, this analysis could help alot!
thanks alot really 
^ ok PCG and all you folks! i'm in serious need of some advice and analysis here. please be so kind to spare a few moments and spill a few smart sentences...
thanks...
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Haris Zuberi, i never knew guys think so much... lol..
girls dont think much, they just talk to their friends who think in a group.. so you gotta invite her friends, who later would analyse you to death..
Haris you are soo cute!!I agree with Mystical, I didnt know guys could think this much! :p
I also agree with PCG above: if a guy invites me to hang out with his friends, i would think he is really interested in me (if there is a potential of being more than just friends). Now ofcourse, it all depends on the vibe I am getting. SHeesh, PCG summed it up a lot better than i can, so ditto. :D
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Haris Zuberi, i never knew guys think so much... lol..
girls dont think much, they just talk to their friends who think in a group.. so you gotta invite her friends, who later would analyse you to death..
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MysticalMiss,
haha! :) thats kind of cool and scary at the same time, group analysis of one poor guy! but can be fruitful too, if girls do depend on friends and group in such issues, the guy getting positive votes from the girl's friends just might make the girl agree :D
Aww! Ira, thanks!
ure right, most guys dont think that deep about these things, i guess, until theyre really serious and really want it all to work and hope for everything to be positive and dont want any messes..
i guess inviting her to an outing with other friends does give out the right signals then! cool! :k:
and you mention the vibes, does that mean whether the guy is giving out other signals, or vibes about his personality which may make a girl judge whether she can look at him as a potential partner at all or not?