Step up to a girl...

..since we’re having too many male-bashing threads of late, this is one for the success we have achieved.

Please do share instances when ur approaches to girls were fruitfull and what tactics you used in what situation, and what the result was.

(This could become an important thread for the guys here for future reference :D)

advice, try not bein arrogant n cocky. Us girls get turned off by guys who think they r too cool to walk on Earth. :rolleyes:

uh...no reply? See! You guys suck.

Gupshup guys are pansies. :flower1:

I guess the fact thet they are at GS proves/means that the guys here never were successful in real life :bummer:

lol. what about you Nessie, you can tell us a story.

Re: Step up to a girl…

3 replies and already this is just another male bashing thread :hehe:

Treat them like you would your male friends. It becomes very very friendly very fast. And please no expectations. And NEVER ever be judgmental. If she is friendly with you it doesn't mean she is friendly with every aira ghera. Have some self confidence in YOURELF.

Funguy, how many guys actually think like that though? You read it all the time here on GS. “Oh, if she’s talking to him, I wonder how many other guys she talks to”. Losers. :rolleyes:

^ I don't even know why you're worried about what they think Mehnaz.

cats: my story? :eek: it will be too confronting for you ppl :stuck_out_tongue:

funguy: >>>Treat them like you would your male friends<<<

does this mean we shud ask them to come along to watch a soccer match or grab a terrace on a Friday afternoon?

awww cmonnnn!!!

Nes, why the hell not? Girls love doing guy's things. Take her to a baseball game and see the wonders it does.

FG>>>Treat them like you would your male friends. It becomes very very friendly very fast. And please no expectations. And NEVER ever be judgmental. If she is friendly with you it doesn’t mean she is friendly with every aira ghera. Have some self confidence in YOURELF. <<<<

Talk about no expectations…Desi girls are very clear about their expectations. What are you smoking? :smokin2: Males are being bashed because the ‘expectation’ is to commit. Kya samjay pansy mian?

funguy its fine if you go together to watch a game, but not if he asks you to come watch him play. Thats such a killer.

Fayz, I know what you are saying that desi girls (most) start seeing you in a sheerwani on a white horse the moment you ask them out... actually, I have never asked a desi girl out so I am not sure if my advice holds any value here. But regardless of whether she is a desi or not, I set my own rules and expectations. It makes my life a lot easier and I feel at peace if something goes haywire down the road.

depends on how desi the desi girl is.

^please elaborate

she is refering to my comment in the post above.

no wonder you can't read a girl's mind.

it could also apply to cats last post, and then the whole meaning changes

perhaps then the whole desiness of PCG changes