I’m not a married guy.
It depends on different things that how I’ll be satisfied with one woman all my life.
Sometimes ppl give importance to looks, some ppl give importance to behariour, some ppl give importance to education and many more things. Or few things togather.
Sometimes they get some thing or few things but later find out that no that person is not the one whom I was looking for.
It depends on our liking.
If you will like or love a women it would become easy to live whole life with that woman. As after sometimes it become like use to. We become use to live with that person so it become easier to live with.
The question you asked if from a man. Man has this nature that he finds someone more attractive after some time or get bored or don’t like the women whom he liked a lot before. That might be because of behaviour and attitude no matter how lovely that person is.
When we chose someone as spouse we can only see his/her beauty or personality little bit and looks so decide but after living with him/her we know what kind of person that is. So our beahaviour change due to that.
Question you asked asnwer is that was the reason Allah allowed man to marry 4 at time. Some man can’t be satisfied with one woman at a time. It’s very natural thing.
If you can’t be satisfied with one woman and have money to afford 4 wifes and physical strength to have 4 wifes at a time then go for it.
That way you can contribute in society by helping for ladies and would also satisfy yourself to in different ways of life and your liking.
Yes it might be easy for a extremly good looking to stisfy you if you give importance to good looking person.
Yes a good looking can be an ordinary woman. Some times an ordinary looking lady can be a great person. It depends.
There is no need to convince ourself if you love that lady. You will be attracted like magnet no matter she is good looking or not. What Important is love or liking.
Yes you are right you might meet more better women at your job or way to job or anywhere but you will only be attracted to those if you will find things in that person which you give importance to. There not be love or might be. That would only be attraction.
There is a big difference in attractiona and love and liking. We in our life get attracted to many things but love or like only few things. That is the difference. Same goes to persons.
If you love your wife and consider her your love and you are FAITHFUL to her then you will not be attracted by the lady who is way more better than your wife in everything.
If you are unfaithful to her then you will be attracted to her. This is the reason Allah asked men to lower their gaze and asked woman to cover herself properly.
So no looking no nazar aing no problem. Just follow Islam. If by any chance you see an attractive lady then again quran says don’t look again.
Your problem solved here.
Sure I replied seriously. I don’t make fun of ppl’s questions. I always try to give serious anwers with logics and Islamic code according to my knowledge.
LOL. You can do that but it will make you gunahagar.
Men are allowed to marry 4 ladies at a time. Woman are not.
Even a molvi can have different opinion on different matter of life. It’s not a big deal.
Ohhhh my. Why girls go to masjid with ultra skin tight dress. You mean to attract guys. You get attracted don’t you? Saieen don’t look at them. Keep your gaze lowere you won’t know who is coming and what they are wearing.
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Insha Allah become molvi shahab. Good luck.
We see ladies everywhere it doesn’t matter. We don’t want to marry all ladies whom we see at work place or roads or any where.
Are you looking every where to find a woman to marry. I don’t think all men look all the time a lady to marry after marriage. Only Chichara’s do that. They do that whole their life.
Great logic. Yes wife is also like a friend + many more things. Again Love is involved.
Yes in friendship no sex is involved that’s why there is more love and liking between husband and wife.
That’s sad that you got bad ending. You only got married for a year that was not enough time to understand enought about husband wif relationship. When you will live long time with your spouse then you will get clear answer of your question.
So He is a great person. Want to end a relationship as quran said. Ahsan tareeqay say farigh kar do.
Kioon naheen zaib deta SU. Doosri shadi ki ijazat to hai na mardon ko. Phir kioon naheen.
If he is not satisfied with one wife he can go for second, third and forth. It’s his right Islamically. According to his needs. That need might be physical, psychological or social. It depends.
It’s better to have more than one wife rather than go for sins with different ladies without any marriage.
Agree. But sometimes spouse can’t get all or somethings what he/she want so he can go for anther one. Even after love, liking, respect and commitment with one person.
You were right and I respect you as you did great thing. If you don’t want to live with that person whom you liked before then you can do what you want without being rude to that person.