I am going to hope that a married man's decision to overcome temptation and continue to stay FAITHFUL **to his wife has **something (even a little bit) to do with love/care for his wife. The fear of losing the kids and the wife taking the car, the house, and other material things might have something to do with it as well. But I'm still going to have hope that he has at least an iota of love/affection for his wife....to not put her through such pain.