Staying in a volatile marriage...divorce rate going up

[Sara516]

Re: Staying in a volatile marriage…divorce rate going up

@salaam2k14

Either you’re stupid for trying to make it work and not giving up too early and letting years go by improving oneself and being hopeful not believing in the concept of divorce or you’re one of the ones that’s involved in the divorce rate going up.

@salaam2k14

I’ve seen a person that got a divorce after 1 month of marriage or after a couple months of marriage which initially when I hear that I feel like how much was the marriage given a chance if after only 1 month divorce is taken as a very serious option.

welll…you’re part of the problem too then aren’t you?

Given how serious divorce is, I would rather give someone benefit of the doubt and realize that something a lot worse was going on rather than assume the person “involved in the divorce rate going up”. Our perception isn’t necessarily reality, just because we think we’ know wha’ts happening doesn’t mean its actually true.