Staying at a hotel instead of MIL's house during visit?

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Re: Staying at a hotel instead of MIL’s house during visit?

@ManoRani

Because of our Pakistani culture, I’m afraid this will hurt the feelings of his parents, so i would be willing to forego my own comfort for them, but is that the right thing to do? I don’t know.

@ManoRani

…I don’t care about our culture or adopted culture, only religion. From what I’ve studied I am under no obligation to stay with them…

Then there is no issue, just ignore whatever people might say and stay in the hotel. Why even ask when you are under no Islamic obligation to even attend the wedding?