Re: Staying at a hotel instead of MIL’s house during visit?
When my family used to visit before the marriage, the house used to be clean and no animals were inside at the time. I don’t want to tell my parents now cuz what are they gonna do except get pareshaan about me.
All the siblings are younger and live in the same home, he’s the eldest of all of them. They are not as religious as my husband, so if we used that as an excuse we’d get a lot of “thanz”, and bohot baatein sunne kp milti hain. His parents tell him to shave his beard, and say we are too conservative so they won’t really respect a religious excuse.
I’d prefer to be honest with them but I also want to be gentle and I really don’t know how to address this, also like I said before, it’s their home, I don’t care how they keep it but its a problem for me when I visit and it becomes my problem when they force us to stay with them, and I can foresee it being a problem if they wish to live with me because I can’t live like that I prefer a much tidier living arrangement.