Stay at Home Wives/Mothers and Spending Money

[Paheli00]

Re: Stay at Home Wives/Mothers and Spending Money

@luvblingz

he did know about all of my debts waaayyy before the wedding- and way before we got engaged for that matter.. he used to tell me not to worry about it, but now i feel he is harboring some mass resentment toward me for making my payments

yes i did move far far away from my family and job for him also- which i get zero acknowledgement for

i need help

I think you’re too lenient with him. NO ONE in this world (husband included) will show you respect if you allow them to disrespect you. Something in your personality made your hubby believe that it’s ok to make negative comments about him having to pay your debt (a situation he voluntarily entered). And based on how you’ve been reacting to him so far…he obviously believes its ok to continue making you feel guilty about it. Put your foot down woman!