STALKER

Other day my friend was telling me that she has a stalker now . This gora guy went out with her like only twice and one time I was there too . But now he is full time after her . Where ever she goes he is after her . Unfortunately she also have few classes with him too . So that she can’t help . But he calls her , text her weird stuff , comes over to her house when she is not there , in the mall , after the class all the time with that look in his eyes . He is everywhere . She was so scared that even when she was telling me this story she was still looking around . Poor girl .

I think now she contacted local police and authorities on campus but its a scary situation as he might end up hurting her . Yea that dangerous these freaks can be . So girls if you been into this kind of situation then what you did ? Please share your thoughts . Experiences .

Ignore the beep beep, son of a beep. :naraz:

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I would 100% get a older cousin/brother involved. It always works.
However this guy said some awful things to me because i wouldnt give him my number, i informed my bf straight away, Funny thing was that guy knew who my bf was and my bfs friends. Yeah lets just say that guy wont be bothering me again, and will think twice before bothering any other girl again!!

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wear hideous clothes, smell bad, keep bad breathe, act weirdly, ignore him and lost in your own world/imagination.

:roman:

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Oh and make sure you tell her NOT to be scared! Because you never know God forbid one day she could be by herself he could catch her off-guard and she would be really scared and lose all her confidence and he wud end up hurting her. (God forbid i hope not)
Tell her to inform someone close too.

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She is arab and her cousins here are huge and really temperamental . She did tell them about this case but not the name . She is afraid that the guy might end up dead :cb:

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^ And she cares?!? I dont think he cares, I mean look what hes doing to her? Shes a nervous wreck!!

Tell her to avoid going out alone, especially at night. If she absolutely must, tell her to make it quick, park away from large cars and SUVs, and always under a street light or as close as possible. Stay out of dark, isolated areas and keep in well lit areas with people around.

Of course, she probably won't be able to have someone come with her every time she needs to run out of the house, but tell her to be smart about it. Avoid places that are isolated/few people around. When climbing into the car, she should dump her stuff in immediately, sit down and shut and lock the door as quick as she can. Way too many women get assaulted/hurt because they're slowly getting into the car, leaving the door open while arranging their stuff in the passenger seat, etc.

Tell her to always keep her cell phone with her - battery charged and ready to go whenever she's outside. She should also let someone know where she'll be and how long it will take so someone will know to worry and do something if Allah forbid something happens.

Self defense classes are a must for every woman. I don't care whether you have a reason for it or not. You never know when you need it.

If he follows her around in public, she should be LOUD about it. If he's getting too close, turn around, YELL ("why are you following me? Leave me ALONE." etc.), preferably in a crowded place. Cowards like that aren't looking for unwanted attention.

And she should really look into getting a restraining order. Document, document, document. Tell her to save and print creepy emails, texts...record phone calls. Video tape/take pictures of incidents. That's evidence. If anybody else sees what's happening, they are witnesses who can testify or write up a signed and notarized affidavit. If she's reported it to the police and campus security, ask for copies of the incident reports so she'll have them for her records in case the judge asks for it.

That's all I can think of for right now.

Edit - I forgot the most important thing. Recite Ayat Ul-Kursi. Make dua. Allah watches everything and HE is the greatest protector.

nami pai golden chance hai app k pass hero bananay ka :wink: or oil company ka maalik ban-nay ka :hehe:

do some thukai of that stalker :bailan:

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^:cb:

Maybe you did not read what he said after ‘she is arab’ .. keep reading.

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^ Exactly and plus she is too pretty for me . I think I’ll stick to desiz . :cb:

runs and hide under the table

No really like why dont u give the stalker a good beating, Nami? U girl!

:halo:

Cause its Amerika and not pind-dadaan Khan & I don’t wana bhe bahi anyways :stuck_out_tongue:

so no one beats up anyone in amrika?

excooses. ur still a girl.

:omg:

OUCH!!!

She did the right thing by informing Police and campus security. Ask her to keep pepper spray always handy…

Very informative reply mistral . I’ll convey this to her . Thanks :k:

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Ask her to star wearing shuttlecock burqa. He will leave her alone. which gora will be able to walk alongside a walking tent ?

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Also tell her to start carrying Mace, might come in handy if needed.