What will you do if all of a sudden your significant other seizes to exist, you know, an unfortunate accident, fatal health problem or just vanishes into the horizon.
How would you cope? Will you be able to survive, emotionally, financially? What life changes will you have to make? Will you remarry?
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Call it burying my head in the sand or whatever, lekin, mujhe is bareh mein nahi sochnah hai....................
Allah mere husband koh lambee umar deh aur tandaroosti deh....:x
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^ Ameen! My feelings are also the same.
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I'd rather not think about that at the moment thanks.
Dream Quasher indeed!!
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Call it burying my head in the sand or whatever, lekin, mujhe is bareh mein nahi sochnah hai....................
Allah mere husband koh lambee umar deh aur tandaroosti deh....:x
Ameen!
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I will say the same thing about my beloved wife. Allah give her long life and the best of health. Ameen.
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sometimes wen ive had a small argument with Atif......and wer not talking for some reason......i make myself think about this....
dat will i be able to cope without him?.....where will i go?...how will i face anybody?.....wot wud i do?.....all of these questions come to the same answer......
i cant live without him......
obvioulsy in reality thats not true.....u move one, or u find happiness again after eyars n years of sadness......u start smiling again after months n months of acheing etc....but ryt now i cant live without my man.....
and that my dear frends.....makes me go to him and make up.......jus the thought of him it wipes out all the anger all the mistakes all the lil lil bad habits he might have...:)
May Allah Tallah give him every ounce of happiness.......and a long healthy life....aameen....
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Call it burying my head in the sand or whatever, lekin, mujhe is bareh mein nahi sochnah hai....................
Allah mere husband koh lambee umar deh aur tandaroosti deh....:x
Ameen
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i don't want to think bout it
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im not marryed yet but ive got a fiance and rite now i dnt think i cud cope without him
becoz hes wiv me every step and gives me support i think i would have sum sort ov break down :( but i tend to block these sort of thoughts out of head
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four years ago we almost lost her and it is a miracle that she survived because of how serious her situation was
So this is a topic I was forced to think about albeit very randomly and an unorganized mannner because I was more focused on her
The only change we made was increasing life insurance as well as accidental death insurance for myself and getting basic life insurance for her so if something happens to her there will be no short term financial stress on top of the personal and emotional struggle and if something happens to me her and the kids will be well taken care of
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Look at all these love birds .. awww 
X2 bhaijaan, I have little knowledge about life insurance. I know I am covered some what from my work and so is Nadia but apart from that I have really no clue.
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I would rather not think about it. Like Aashi said, ofcourse you cant stop living without your spouse but i know for a fact that i cant live without him while we are both alive. I always pray and make dua that i die before he does so i dont have to face the pain.
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What will you do if all of a sudden your significant other seizes to exist, you know, an unfortunate accident, fatal health problem or just vanishes into the horizon.
How would you cope? Will you be able to survive, emotionally, financially? What life changes will you have to make? Will you remarry?
You don't!!
You move on with the life for sake children and for your self.
Pains is going to remain with you as long as you live. But doing life is important too.
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^awww.. a serious answer from you.
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what!!
I am serious person 
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something i just don't want to think about and pretend that nothing of the sorts can ever happen to anyone...
life has to go on....no matter what ....you just try to cope with everything on every level...emotionally,financially etc....and maybe one day find happiness too and be all happy...patta nahin.....i just don't want to know...
my husband gave me a scare of my life time a few months back...although it was nothing,nothing at all....but that one hour or so was something i just don't want to remember...i felt the most helpless lonely person.....:(....
and the only thoughts at those moments was what will happen to me and how will i live on,if God forbid sth happens to him......:(
may Allah mian keep everyone happy and healthy and safe...ameen.....
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This is something that I and my hub actually discussed before marriage and I was really surprised to see how many were saying they wont even think about it. Its an IMPORTANT issue! I was earning a really good income before we had our boys and this gave my Hub SO much comfort because he knew that I'd be able to sufficiently care for our boyz if something should happen to him...and vice versa. I am a woman yet I do not need to rely on a marriage or a man to care for my family if - God forbid - something bad should happen. Habing life insurance is a great idea and a necessary one. So also is the ability of the wife to be able to carry on.
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I think i would seriously go crazy and end up in a mental institute.
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The only change we made was increasing life insurance as well as accidental death insurance for myself and getting basic life insurance for her so if something happens to her there will be no short term financial stress on top of the personal and emotional struggle and if something happens to me her and the kids will be well taken care of
That is something we did also, life insurance and accidental death insurance ..
another thing is WILL. We should all have one