Spouse naturally quiet and shy

my hubby is sooooo quiet, not with me, with me hes fine and fun, however when we have guests around hes back in his shell, hes naturally quiet always has been, but then i get mum getting worried and asking me if `hes ok, itna chup kyu hain, and i say well mum hes always been quiet, she says, i know but zyda chup lag raha tha…godddddd, i dnt know if im annoyed at mum for over analyzing, or at hubby for being so flippin chup all the time…

right now, am angry at hubby. when he gets home from work he will get the baseball bat treatment…

Re: Spouse naturally quiet and shy

Tell your mother that's his nature and to stop bothering you about it.

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omg ..people have such issues .. tobah ..:smack:

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Leave the poor guy alone

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its not an issue as such...i mean my mum maybe took it personally that he is quiet and didnt want them to come round to our house....they came over and he was quiet so for them, they think he didnt want us to come..although we go see them almost on a weekly basis and even stay the nights...but i dnt think its like that.....however im peed at hubby for being sooo quiet, sometimes people think we have had a fight.

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it's his personality...let him be

you wouldn't like it if he stopped you from being a gobby cow, not that i'm implying in any way that you are one but you know what I mean. You would probably throw a fit if he told you to change something about yourself....

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Give him a jolly good wallop with the baseball bat to ensure that he is killed off with one blow.

Then he definitely WILL have a good reason for being chup-chap.

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Why did you marry him, if you keep nitpicking about perfectly acceptable personality traits that you find so objectionable?

RupayHalwa… :omg:

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hmmmmmmm

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^^ as they say .. go with the flow .. lol hes chup already make him chupper

but .. hey as long as you two are getting on .. who cares what anyone else has to say .. and if someone says something ..best thing to do is listen from one ear and let it out the other .. cos if your happy .. then whatever anyone else has to say . . doesNOT mattter to you ..

simple as that ..end of discussion. topic concluded .. thread finished :D

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give him time he is in a new country, new mahool, it will take time for him to loosen up with your guests, who might be strangers for him.

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yeh but i want him to alteast chat to the other members of the human race too, just so he knows that IM not the only person that exsists in the world....atleast to my parents......

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hes not new, hes old. hes been here 3 and half years. but like i said natually quiet, but when hes quieter, thats when everyone worries...

:omg:

Re: Spouse naturally quiet and shy

may be he is a cereal killer

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maybe hes jackyle and hyde .. :D

when hes with you .. hes jackyle .. and when infront of guests .. hes litrally hyde lol

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nadz grow up n leavethe guy alone n ask ur mom to do the same

“cereal” killer?!! :konfused:

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are you guying talking about me? :konfused: :hmmm: