Re: Split debate-Spending thousands on a wedding dress
Im going through a bit of this ordeal myself right now and came to a conclusion tonight. I finalized my wedding jorda and am NOT going to change my mind again.
Like some of the other girls here said, I cant buy an outfit for over $1k and not wear it again so Im making sure the kaam and design are definitely wearable. The shirt is staying long and will be a coat style so I can make a shalwar later on to match it...its really cute and Ill post pictures when I get it. The kaam is light weight but full because I dont like a lot of weighty kaam. Plus, I know myself...I will get overwhelmed and cranky if Im not comfortable.
You know what everybody? I think its your wedding day and as much as I love helping people out...I only get to have this day once. I am allowed to be a little selfish on this day so if I can afford a pricey wedding dress...Ill do it. If I want to wear a risque dress on my bridal shower...I will. If my vision costs me a few hundred dollars more and I can easily afford it without shirking other responsibilities, then I deserve to do it.
Thats my story and Im sticking to it. :)