Re: Speechless
I’ve heard about raves since I was a teenager. Never been to one. But having grown up in the U.S. in the 90’s, I heard about it from plenty of classmates who attended them on a regular basis. The cops suspect drug use b/c there IS drug use! Here at the U.S., it’s pretty common knowledge that going to a rave = ecstasy and possibly other illegal drugs. The fact that OP specifically mentioned that ecstasy is part of these parties should let you know the drugs are DEFINITELY part of the raves OP is familiar with.
On the other spectrum, maybe I’m too cynical but in my experience, if a person is ok with hanging around a crowd that’s into illegal drugs…then odds are they have done it too at one point or another. It’s a bit ridiculous to compare illegal drugs to dancing in a club IMO. Sure, I agree that there is nothing to directly prove that OP and/or her fiancé have done drugs. But there is plenty indicating that BOTH of them see nothing wrong with going to a party and hanging around other people who are doing them. And based on what I have seen when it comes to drugs like weed, ecstasy etc. over the years…that alone says plenty.
:hinna: As I’ve said many times before…another example of why we women are our worse enemies.