Re: Specifically for Unmarried Girls...
Oh well I didnt mean the gals/ladies who deliberately wants to stay single. Of course that would be their choice how they want to live their lives. My point was when you want to get marry but you cannot coz luck is not on yourside. I have seen many many and many very nice girls who couldnt find a good proposal and reached to a stage where they didnt have either much choice to make when a proposal came or proposal stopped coming at all. These are the gals who really wanted to get married but taqdeer ne saath nahin diya.
I personally would dread that situation.
I reckon, for girls who wants to settle down in life by marrying to someone , or who had been dreaming to have her own home and family, it would be a readly hard to live alone. I know if this is what fate has chosen for you, then of course you will look for outlets , activities, adopting orphans etc. But still one cannot deny the need of a man and marriage in one's life. It is a need for sure and its a Natural need. Its not about one thing but its about so many things which are related to this relationship.
"Man or marriage should not be a need" easier said than done. Marriage is a need, man is a need for woman and vice versa. This need was felt by Allah too hence created Hawa to acompany Adam.
I no where mean to say that for the sake of marriage, marry just any man. No One should not be that frustrated about it. I dont mean to make life a living hell.
I wish no man and no woman have to live a lonely life. Partnership is important and indispensable for both.