Who made these age ranges?
I’m especially shocked at the 18-21 range. Seriously?
We human set these ranges. Fact of the matter is that a woman in her 30’s is in her sexual peak, so its a perfect time to get married after 30 once you’ve got your education securely under your belt and you’ve saved up some money and set it on the side.
For financial advice, I’d like to add : get a pre-nup. Especially if you make a reasonable salary. And save what you make, like someone said, because you never know when he’s going to boot you out. You never know with desi men. Its like a carnival for some of them.
Yes seriously ! She first said “25 is an ideal age” and I’m like “Sure” then she added “For a boy of course, girls should best get married at 18-21 they are mature enough at that age”…mature aka. manipulative? She went on saying “I once met a 30 year old woman, who had studied medicine and she still wasn’t married! Can you imagine? Of course she was no Pakistani.”
Sheesh that lady was not Pakistani either, she is a German convert, she had married a Pakistani man and their sons are at madrassas. Just plein weird. Whenever she calls me she annoys me with rishta and the importance of marriage within Islam. In her opinion girls are expected to become housewives, slave to stove and bed…I have other things on my mind than that, I’d love to go abroad and study(YES those log will say a woman is not supposed to live on her own without any mahram), just I don’t have the expenses for it.
Especially a man seems to be able to hit ANY age and still can get a young girl but a woman no once she is past 25 she is considered old and all her other achievements such as studies are not even worth to be mentioned.
i agree with both of u…u’re just soo right..but i did want to get mariied early as i have always wanted to be a pyaari si mummy:blush:..really dont care about being alone or not…jo nasib me Allah ta’ala ne likha he thik hi hoga..may everyone get a good spouse