either i am stupid, or my superstitious family is going crazy with selecting the “purrr-fect” date …
so .. when are the brides-to-be-on-GS getting married?
chop-chop .. start writing your dates …
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end of april :)
Mid april, inshaAllah. Haven't decided on the actual date yet though!
December!!
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january..despite there being this whole issue abt having it in muharram!
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December or January: date isnt confirm coz of muharram!
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well it was suppose to be June until recently I found out that i will be starting school and will be in a middle of a semester 
So, now debating to move it to Feb which is a lil to soon!!
so to answer your question its Feb or June!
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Dec 5th! lol
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Jan 1st 2010 InshAllah
end of january inshAllah
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april inshallah
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Mar-April or Oct-Nov
No not getting married yet, abhi tou larka bhi nahin milla but I just plan to keep my wedding in these months… 
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^ lol at FT.....
Nazmeen, All the best.. thts not tooooo far.
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oh 10th oct is my nephew’s first birthday inshAllah. and that reminds me I have to discuss with my sis about party arrangements.. 
thank you nazmeen.
Wish you all the best Nazmeen 
. Shadi ke baad plz koi saas bahu ka thread na kholna. Tell us about only good things.
and oh plz share your pics too. 
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2013 dec MAX
Inshallah :D
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it looks like mid-end october of 2009 (this year) haven't decided the exact date yet I'm not really superstitious about dates, except for muharram to me all weddings blessed by allah since it is sunnah to get married ...
well this is interesting .. the deal is that my holidays from school begin mid dec, and i can take off till end of jan ...
pehlay ghar waloun nay masla dala tha k muharam main nahi kerni, to mainay dates agay ker di chutioun ki ... good for me as well, i can easily finish my trimester ... it's my thesis year ... ab dates agay ker di hein to ab kehtay hein k ye to safar ka mahina ageya, is say behtr k muharam mein karo ...
now what is this whole thing about? it's pissing me off ...
this is the only holidays i can get, and i dont want to not get married only because sasfar ka mahina acha nahi hai ... :S
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yaar mujhe nahi lagta k koi bhi mahina burra hai shaadi k liye... shaadi toh bazaate khud ek mutbarik event hai sunnat hai koi bhi mahina ya din burra nahin ho sakta iske liye but i could be wrong i would check ahadith or quran to see k kya allah ki taraf se humein ijaazat nahin muharram aur safar mein karne ki ya phir as usual hum mein hinduana asar hai aur hum bewajah superstitious hain.
pata hai muharrim mein humare yahan isliye nahi karte cuz manaah kahin nahin hai magar qarbila mein shaheed huwe itne log aur meri mama yeh kehti hain k agar tum apne nana ya dad wageyra ki death pe koi celebration nahin karna chaahogi toh unn hastiyon ki shahaadat ki bhi izzat rakhni chaahiye aur uss tyme pe celebration nahin karni chaahiye.
but mujhe nahin lagta allah ki taraf se manaah hai aur ek aur baat yeh bhi hai k hota waise hi hai jaise taqdeer naseeb qismat mein allah ne likh hota hai...ab agar aapke paas koi choice hi nahin except to get married in muharrim or safar that means allah has written in that way..that's when ur shaadi is supposed to be....and like i said before yeh sunnat hain jab bhi karo allah ki rehmat toh hogi hi insha'allah ...kyunki you are obeying allah by getting married so it's not like ur gonna suffer the wrath of god ya nahussat hogi agar shaadi muharrim ya safar mein ki...i dont believe that jab k shaadi karna hi mutbarik kaam hai..aur jab k tumhaari shaadi ban hi ya safar mein rahi hai ya muharrim mein ab iska kya matlab hai tum shaadi hi na karo? i dont think allah is that strict..itni choti choti cheez ki allah tension nahin leta..hum log zyada mushkil banaa dete hain islam ko..itna mushkil nahin rakha huwa allah ne k apne aap ko museebat mein daale rakho...
i dunno if you know 5abi par "allah keerhiyan phaahe nahin lagaata"
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haha ... ok maybe i understand the muharram bit but what is UP with safar? i am also getting married in muharram. after the first 10 days . no halls or caterrers cater in the first 10 anyway.