Sooo...why is being a gold digger such a bad thing?

[Sehrysh]

Re: Sooo…why is being a gold digger such a bad thing?

@webmister

The problem is not with being materialistic, its the way they try to hide their materialism that looks bad e.g. using words like “financial stability” or “security” or “stable job” when all they really want to know is how much money he has/can make.

But before I respond, why is aspiring to financial security in a relationship a bad thing and why is it termed materialistic? In your mind are there degrees of acceptability for a woman wanting financial security?