Shikra
March 1, 2008, 5:51pm
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Re: …Son vs. Daughter…
No actually shikra, this the time mrs. will need you the most. remember its a rebellious girl we dealing with and the first outlet will be mum…“who just is out to ruin my life and daddy is the only one who ever understood me.” You have to play a huge role at this stage. Once she get over this stage then she appreciate mum more. You right its delicate cos you have to be firm and yet open the line of communication…and tons of patience…
BTW any tips from anyone I will gladly take.
But theres more…the time when you as a father will feel the most pain is when you marry your lil princess off and give her away to what even if you consider a perfect match, you will always wonder will she be treated the same as we treated her…will she be happy? that day you will say your most sincere prayers ever…
but apart from all that, you enjoy your girl(s) when Inshallah you have them…dua for you and your wife
Oh boy! Thanks for the dua, I most certainly would need it
My wife thinks I will spoil our children (although I act tough now - no children yet). It will be difficult task to raise children in the US, regardless of whether it’s a boy or a girl. Sooner or later, I’ll be put to test