Re: ...Son vs. Daughter...
Doctors avoid to tell mothers if its a girl in scan.....no this isn't the case.....doctors avoid to tell the ignorant mothers if its a girl for only to avoid fitnah (some parents decide to abort the baby and some mothers can have complications during birth due to the tension of giving birth to a girl).
Even in the UK they don't tell the women from Pakistani Mirpuri community bcoz of their ignorance (my friend told me that).
I started to cry when I heard that it's gonna be a third boy (As I wanted a girl) but afterwords I realized my mistake and I did taubah.
After so many years it has dawned on me and now I know the mindset of the doctors too.
This seems to be universal. My two boys were born in CA and in both the cases they told us within minutes that it was a boy. The Third one a girl was born in Chicago and the doctor doing the scan told us that she was not sure about the gender of the baby.
Lo karlo Gal.
It means the secret it out now that if it a boy doctors will share the 'joy' with you and if it is a girl they will not tell you but indirectly are they not hinting or telling you ?