net per aapko ek say barh ker ek kameena insaan "sweet" ban ker milay ga..girls are so naive and dumb that they can trust anyone online
i think someone mentioned earlier bout counselling ..if ur husband does love u at all he won't mind going with you..but if he just doesnt love you then just dump him..its good to compromise a little but dont ruin ur life for anyone
Your hubby doesn't sound very charming or loving. Since you have been recently married and not too much of an investment has been made, think of your options. Living your life with someone who does not respect you and doubts your life outside of home means more trouble down the road. I believe you two don't have any children yet. Seriously think of life without him. And please DO NOT include your net friend in any of this thinking process. He might disappear in a flash once he finds out you are thinking of serious stuff with him.
So, don't make any decision based on your feelings or relationship with the net guy but think of life without your present hubby. If it makes sense, then act on it.
All these idiots above showing shock over a married person having feelings for someone else are singl themselves. Don't pay too much attention to them.
aawwww nilu 
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ur hubby is idiot :o…
talk wid him abt it … tell him that u dont need his love if he cant respect u as a person 
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n abt net friend … dont get into troubel .. good that u ve blocked him…:k:…
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Your hubby doesn't sound very charming or loving. Since you have been recently married and not too much of an investment has been made, think of your options. Living your life with someone who does not respect you and doubts your life outside of home means more trouble down the road. I believe you two don't have any children yet. Seriously think of life without him. And please DO NOT include your net friend in any of this thinking process. He might disappear in a flash once he finds out you are thinking of serious stuff with him.
So, don't make any decision based on your feelings or relationship with the net guy but think of life without your present hubby. If it makes sense, then act on it.
All these idiots above showing shock over a married person having feelings for someone else are singl themselves. Don't pay too much attention to them.
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Lolz thanks Funguy that u dont think like other pplz here.
I work out what i will do now and i temporary block my
net friend dekho kya hoga.
Nilu, I think you've given him enough opportunities, if you are here in the United States, find a divorce lawyer and get rid of his useless ass and stick it to him, take him for everything he's got. I just can't get over this bad language nonsense, no one deserves that kind of abuse and debasement, it makes me very angry.
Counselling with losers like him is useless... he obviously doesn't have respect for you and you have the right to leave him. I know it's hard but there is a vast support group that can help you.
awesome advise fungu… 
Nilu honey… pluck the net friend out of the pic and see how you feel about the situation.
Hi MuniYa i can’t just pluck my net friend out of the pic
i know him for 1year.
And i know it feel strange coz i can laugh and talk (general things)
with him.
I just block him to find out what i want and if
i really have deep feelings for him.
Nilu,
You should seek marital counselling immediately. Maybe your marriage is worth saving, maybe it is not. A few counselling sessions will help you make up your mind. I am not going to tell you that the creep you are married to will change. What I can tell you that this net friend is just an unknown entity. It is very easy to be nice on the net when all he wants is to get in bed with you. Many many women have been cheated by net creeps. Don't be the next one.
One thinng you must do is ask that hubby of yours to face the problem and see a marriage counsellor. If you are a muslim there are many muslim counselling services run by local mosques in many cities in Europe and America who will offer you mediating services. If you are not muslim, you will find similar services offered by govt agencies.
Get going girl. You have a lot of work to do.
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Nilu,
You should seek marital counselling immediately. Maybe your marriage is worth saving, maybe it is not. A few counselling sessions will help you make up your mind. I am not going to tell you that the creep you are married to will change. What I can tell you that this net friend is just an unknown entity. It is very easy to be nice on the net when all he wants is to get in bed with you. Many many women have been cheated by net creeps. Don't be the next one.
One thinng you must do is ask that hubby of yours to face the problem and see a marriage counsellor. If you are a muslim there are many muslim counselling services run by local mosques in many cities in Europe and America who will offer you mediating services. If you are not muslim, you will find similar services offered by govt agencies.
Get going girl. You have a lot of work to do.
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Hi Arvind.
I know that i have to work on my marriage.
I told my husband many time's don't call me
that bad name's but it happens over and over again.
I really think he never will changed. He will stop 1 week 2 week or more
but when he get angry phir bass galiyaan shuru.
And about my I-net friend i know him bout 1 year and i know
ur right but if he want me get in to his bed he will done it
before he never say to me i wanna see u or something like that way.
But i know not all are like this.
Anywayz ive blocked him coz i wanna find out what i want and what
i feel for my i-net friend.
And thanks for ur advice.
Nilu
U naughty girl 
but for real, I cant give u proper advice cuz I m happily married :halo:
but try marriage counceling . I know its hard being a pakistani and all but still, :o what gives him the right to call u names if u havent done annything bad. :o I would have knocked him to the floor way back :o but thats not the anwser.
but do think about what you want with your life 
goodluck,
p.s. if u want him to have a good beating just gimme a pm :o
will only takes some minutes, and he wont call anny one a name again
Now we know the secret to your “happily married” life. 
lolzzzzzz
yepz thats true hunny, but u knew that all along baby
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yepz thats true hunny, but u knew that all along baby ;)
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Not so happy afterall?. Does he beat you up in return too?
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yepz thats true hunny, but u knew that all along baby ;)
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U really married Praet???
doe even serieus.
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Not so happy afterall?. Does he beat you up in return too?
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why are u asking so many personal question babe? ;)
U getting jealous? dont worry, I ll kick u annytime ,annywhere u want :D
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U really married Praet???
doe even serieus.
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ik dol maar wat, nog lang niet :)
maar ff seriues, als ie echt problemen geeft, geef maar een pm-etje en zijn werk adress :)
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ik dol maar wat, nog lang niet :)
maar ff seriues, als ie echt problemen geeft, geef maar een pm-etje en zijn werk adress :)
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Denk je dat dit gaat helpen ik denk het niet he.
Hij blijft toch hetzelfde.
En wat bedoelde met naughty girl coz ive
a i net friend lolz?
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*Originally posted by Nilu: *
Denk je dat dit gaat helpen ik denk het niet he.
Hij blijft toch hetzelfde.
En wat bedoelde met naughty girl coz ive
a i net friend lolz?
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das maar een grapje :D . Maar je moet proberen met hem te praten, :) lukt dat niet? probeer dan via iemand anders. bijvoorbeeld zijn family. gaat daar ook fout? dan psycholoog vragen. :) Ik ga niet zeggen doe dit of doe dat, the choice is yours :)
succes
tusi do no hinj karo k ik doos re no pm ker lao.
danks.