well I just wanted to contribute to this all ‘$ex talk’ we are having on GS now days.
anyways back to the topic.
I have heard that ‘first time’ is always an embarrasment. Is it true? and they would ejeculate before time? (well its again a mystry how much duration is considered as normal and would like an answer on that as well:hehe:)
Does that mean if the guy not get ‘drained’ before time he is an ‘experienced’ one?
Does ‘all of it’ also apply to ‘her’ as well? Do girls also feel the same kind of embarrasment of being ‘drained’ too ealry on their ‘first time’?
Well to me if the first time is not going to be a really ‘good’ for the guy it shouldnt be for the girl either so they could cancel the furstration out of eachother.
Sex is a very personal thing. There is no right or wrong answer.
Communication is also very crucial. This allows for a comfort zone between the couple. Makes things easier as time goes along in their relationship.
Wait for your time and experience it to your and her liking.
From your thread it is obvious that yours will be an arranged marriage wher you would be alone with her for the first time. My suggestion to you would be to NOT do much the first night. Just get to know her, talk about other stuff, develop some kind of bonding. Then slowly in a couple of nights, start with light foreplay. Think of it as a pre-marital relationship. And then in a week's time, make your first full throttle move. This is not the ONLY way but one of the ways to 'really enjoy and cherish' your first time.
Having said that and you being a chohdry, I think you will be drained before the floodgates are opened up.
well if you both dont know what your doing how good can it be? Since its ur first time, you wont be used to it, so it may be over pretty quick..l practice makes perfect.But in all seriousness..dont rush into anything, you both will be nervous..just let things happen on their own.
P.S. Plz Dont embarrass the chodhry name, by going out so quick :p
well funguy, we have been good friends before, shes my coz n we have have got the chance to spent much time together ‘alone’ even before our ‘nikah’ n we really know each other but now things are changed as we are ‘nikahofied’ and u know we are having strange flights of imagination.
Chodhry sahib..My advice would be is to go slow..since u r not used to it, the chances of that happening r high..Dont worry..with time and practice it will get better..
If ur worried about it ending so soon, then I would suggest lots of foreplay..there isnt a fixed time, but ideally u would both like to get "drained" thats a sign of a job well done!
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Chodhry sahib..My advice would be is to go slow..since u r not used to it, the chances of that happening r high..Dont worry..with time and practice it will get better..
If ur worried about it ending so soon, then I would suggest lots of foreplay..there isnt a fixed time, but ideally u would both like to get "drained" thats a sign of a job well done!
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anyone pls with more specific answers.
so better know ‘things’ before 
