I have noticed a lot of girls saying ’ he has been staring at me, such a crook he is’ when all that the poor ‘he’ did was took a glance(could have been unintentional).
"He is following me wherever i go, I’m so uncomfortable, why doesnt he mind his business, ******** ’ comes from a class fellow. Poor guy attends class and then goes to cafe, the only two places, the girl goes to as well.
Nadia Hussain was in a morning show. She is asked if she ever tough a lesson to men stalking her. she goes ‘this time i was in plane. Two men were seated behind me. They were talking in some alien language but kept using the word “madame”. When i got up, they again said madame. I gave them an angry stare. Then i left’. …
Men dont deserve all the blame laid on them. Its a few girls(I’m not saying all), that make a mountain out of a molehill. All the fuss for nothing.
As for me, this guy stalked me for one good year. I never noticed. Its only when he admitted, some instants flashed in my mind when i had seen him already:rotfl:
now you are making a mountain out of a molehill .. ..
about psychy .. girls are crazy and they want attention .. when they see their other fellows having bf or relations, they don’t want to be left alone .. so out of no where (if they are single) they start acting as if they are “really that beautiful” that boys are going crazy about 'em .. .. thats why .. “you know he was staring at me .. or stalking me” .. ..
and the frequency of this psyche increases when they get ready for some event .. unconsciously they have this in mind that they are the ultimate beauty today on planet earth .. .. and they just want to tell this to their friends in any possible random sentences
You know I'm a girl and I noticed this crap too. For example I noticed this girl was like ..."this guy wont stop facebooking me...what a creep, blah blah"- turned out- she initiated the messages, and she was responding back to each message, so I'm like if you want him to stop that then stop messaging him for sanity's sake!!!
I know one girl who “strongly” believe that she is one of the hotty. she always initiate things with guys either on facebook, cell phone or in real and then after like 2-3 weeks (when she is fed up him) she likes .. .. "i don’t call him, he calls me .. he is after me .. .. " .. ..
and then girls say .. “They don’t flirt” .. .. accept it rather lie about it
I agree most of those scenarios are pretty stupid and don’t count as stalkerish behaviour especially that Nadia Hussein one
But what if your best mate was actually being stalked? Would it really “make you sick” that she was telling you? All I’m saying is, guy’s aren’t always innocent in these situations and sometimes a girl isn’t blowing things out of propotion. So it’s best not to make sweeping judgements…
alot of girls also do get unimagined male attention
^Agree.
While some of the comments/assumptions about being gawked at by the opposite gender could stem from from khushfahmi or the desire for an ego boost........there are times when the assumption is neither an exaggeration nor the fancy of your mind.
alot of girls also do get unimagined male attention
For sure, no denying...My mom had one herself...and it gave me the creeps listening to her...She said she'd go out to school this one guy he would follow her with a truck ...And one time she was going to her friends house and knocked on the door he opened it and said that her friends were inside, but my mom ran the other way only to bump into her friends who were apparantly not inside the house. ...and when she got married to my dad she was so glad to come to the US just to escape the stalker dude. She only told me that story once and never mentioned it again.
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.. accept it rather lie about it
