Solid Bahane To See "HIM"

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i'd say.. jz let ur parents know dat u'll be goin out wid ur fiance for couple of hrs (if he really is ur fiance, NOT BF). Simple!

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god ppl she was looking for advice NOT reasons as to why she should NOT meet him

there is nothing wrong with meeting your fiance , i bet you have all done it before made bahanay to meet ur gf . newayz miss noland y dont u tell ur parents u will meet ur fiance but not that u will be spending the whol 8 hours with him

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:omg:

and some of these ppl who are advocating this sort of meetings pretend to be very knowledgable on Hadiths. See that “Doing small washroom” thread.

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if thats not the choori u think then meet him in front of every one.

ez way only is to tell ur parents. parents do know that their daughter is dheet n samjhana is of no use.

p.s. there is a solid reasoning y ppl stop gals from such actions.

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Thats the thing I was also saying. If you want to meet him, do it privately (telling parents will be even better).

Why announcing it here?

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the reason is cuz larkiyaan/larkay tend to take advantage if parents dont stop em n stuff.. since they know dat "Ohhhh Ab tau Shadi Honay Wali Hai" lets do sum experiments and they mostly end up doin stuff that they are not suppose to B4 marriage.

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she is not announcing it she is looking for advice how to about it. parents will always stop their children , but he is her fiance that lives out of town n she is seeing him after 5 months. she just wants to know how to meet him without getting caught

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LoL, tumhay sab pata hay!

:phati:

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abbu jaan she did say mulla maulvi types keep out

i guess this thread is better left to gurls , as we cn understand bt u men one track mind as alwayss

:cb:

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I'm glad u r followin the fatwa n preachin' it as well :-p

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What is a mullah type?

Those who bring Hadith for every small thing, like dont use “Urinals” or you will go to hell.

or those, who say morally it will be correct if you let your parents know that you are meeting your fiance.

:konfused:

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please i really dont wnt to get into the whole religion argument

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^^ miss there is no value of engagement in sharia'h. so meeting him widout parents consent is an idiotic approach.

might be his fiancé is checking her faithfulness. :D

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^^ for once I have to agree!

:omg:

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there may be not a value of engagement but you are allowed to meet your to be bride / groom when accompanied

but again give the girl a break she is not asking for your religious view , just general advice

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Masi Sahiba, that was not a mulla type comment. If it was then it is an honor… anyways… wot ive said above is called reality.. and some ppl have really hard time facing it.. ppl tend to put each other down in order to save em sleves from gettin busted… specially Pakistani ppl… Dunya main Sub kuch Kartay Phirrain gay.. agar Koi rokay or sahi baat karay to wo ghalat admi bun jata hai, wo molvi bun jata hai.. bla bla bla…

and men gotta stay in this thread to share their views on this as welll.. since she is planning to go out wid a man..!

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sorry mamu jaan , aap to kafee samajhdaar niklay

newayz not my thread , y am i gttin so hyped

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dats okay khala jaan... chotay chotay forums main bari bari batain hoti rehti hain. :-)

i know right.. dont get so hyped up.. u are NOT gonna get busted! :p

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lolz yup i wont

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maasi sahiba, khaala jaan… maamoo jaan, abbu jaan…

arey ye kya shroo ho gya yahan?

:hmmm: