Ok, here’s the deal. My fiance will be in town for 3 or 4 days. Nobody can know that he’s in town or all hell will break lose (don’t ask why). The problem is I am not working right now and I am taking full-time online classes. I can’t hide staying out for too long. Anyway, I need solid cover-ups to meet him for at least 8 hours a day without anybody finding out. :halo:
P.S. All molvi-mullah types, please keep out!
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8 hours wow i would have suggested that you do ur medical checkup or something during those days but 8 hours a day is too much
i am an expert at it but only meeting short periods of time not 8 hours a day lol
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Libraries always work....have a very serious discussion with your parents about taking your studies very "seriously" from now on...and do go to the library for a couple of days befor he comes....just take care though ;)
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library? lol i dont need to make excuses to meet him now but even if i did library would never have worked...
serious studies would have meant locked up in your room!
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8 hours wow i would have suggested that you do ur medical checkup or something during those days but 8 hours a day is too much
i am an expert at it but only meeting short periods of time not 8 hours a day lol
8 hour day with him still falls short! :( I haven't seen him in a very long time, 5 months to be exact. When you say you are an expert at it, do you mean meeting people in general or meeting boyfriends? :p
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library? lol i dont need to make excuses to meet him now but even if i did library would never have worked... serious studies would have meant locked up in your room!
Yup! same here. I am not a library person either. That bahana will never work and I am bound to get busted!
Come on, I need a genius here!
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You are going to a special Conference/Training for your educational field. Good for networking/jobs/getting more ideas etc.
Use MS word document to make a flyer(sometimes you can find flyers online to get ideas from).
Make a course booklet so you come home with it. Just make the pages/times etc and put it in a 3 ring binder with the leaflet/front page.
Re: Solid Bahane To See "HIM"
You are going to a special Conference/Training for your educational field. Good for networking/jobs/getting more ideas etc.
Use MS word document to make a flyer(sometimes you can find flyers online to get ideas from).
Make a course booklet so you come home with it. Just make the pages/times etc and put it in a 3 ring binder with the leaflet/front page.
That's exactly what I need!! Thanks so much. That's one day though. I need three more really good ideas. If you know more, please please share them.
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conferences can be multi day 2-3 days even. :)
lol. well, then my family might not approve of it... I am not planning to rent a hotel and stay with him overnight. :)
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O and this may be important to know. I have a past of getting busted for being out too long with him. :D
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ok day 1 - party at friends house / or ill friend at hospital / friends day out
day 2 - pretend u have to go to the centre that organises ur online classes
day 3 - go shopping or sayur ill friends is really serious
day 4 - hve u gt a married sister u cn visit dt cn cover up for u
lolz i know wt u mean wen u say u hve a past of getting busted for being out too long with him
we gt cuaght so many times its nt even funny nemore. bt i never gt told off dt much
lozl good luck
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Keep telling your parents that there's this big conference thing in the next town for your studies and it's all been hyped up - you don't want to miss the chance......tell them it's overnight stays but that you aren't keen on staying, and will commute each day..........voila...they think you are sensible for wanting to come hom each night and you get to be out for around 8 hours.......go to the next town if needs be....get one of them to drop you at the bus/train, take a bag of study stuff etc 9you can always leave it at the train station left luggage or locker)...make a fuss about the preparation for it...order yourself a brochure for a conference facility in the next town and have it delivered to your home....show them...it all adds to the authenticity
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I don’t have any friends. I was never the hang-out-with-friends type, so going shopping and hanging out ideas are out the window. I will make “an important conference” or “seminar” bahana (Although I’ve done it before and was BUSTED). I have a married sister, but she lives with us. 
When he used to be here and we were going out everyday, I got used to gettind busted for it all the time and quite honestly got tired of it. It’s not the same anymore ever since he moved away. It’s so much harder now for me to be gone for long without anyone noticing.
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Keep telling your parents that there's this big conference thing in the next town for your studies and it's all been hyped up - you don't want to miss the chance......tell them it's overnight stays but that you aren't keen on staying, and will commute each day..........voila...they think you are sensible for wanting to come hom each night and you get to be out for around 8 hours.......go to the next town if needs be....get one of them to drop you at the bus/train, take a bag of study stuff etc 9you can always leave it at the train station left luggage or locker)...make a fuss about the preparation for it...order yourself a brochure for a conference facility in the next town and have it delivered to your home....show them...it all adds to the authenticity
lol. I have done that conference thing a million times but never made up an overnight one. It has worked in the past, but my parents eventually found out. I have never good at lying or hiding. I am very attached to my parents so it's that much harder for me to hide something from them as they trust me very much. I guess I will have to do this and hope they'd never find out.
Do ADD MORE though... PLEASE
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What about a research study??? Tell them about a big project you've got to do and then say it needs some data collection....make out it's a drag, boring etc
This is similar to the library thing but doesn't confine you to the library 100% of the time...................
??? Does this help???
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roflzzzz this is one of the best threads of GS hahaha
Asiha i never knew u were good at it bohat jald i will need ur help too :P
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your conference is multi-day in the same city. it's totally doable that you have to go there for multi day. do it for 2.
Anyhow if you don't want to get busted you may just have to deal ith the fact that you'll only spend 2-3 hours in teh am...2-3 in the pm and that's it.
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daym no friends or sister .. hmmm well conference and seminar is a good idea but say you say you have used it to many times.
how about exam preparations for your online courses. say they are in the next town and its a 8 - 6 thing exlcuding travel times. say it is very important that you attend this as it will help you with the examination of your course.
again make it out as you dont wnt to go but your attendance will be necessary.
cant think of anything else of yet.... but will be thinking hahaa good luck
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tell em u r taking sum DARS/ islamic course waisai bhe Ramzan is near or tell em u r volunteering @ sum madrasa/old ppl's home err do i sound a lil fake :S i duno