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you are so right, chilly. i have taken the liberty to write a little poem inspired by your message.
dil mil-ey dil mil-ey dil mil-ey
gul khiley gul khiley gul khiley
jab dil mil-ey
tab gul khiley
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A MIL should treat her DIL as her own daughter :k:
P.S i have a humble request to both of them to keep us poor guys out of ur pangay and deal with them on ur own 
you are so right, chilly. i have taken the liberty to write a little poem inspired by your message.
dil mil-ey dil mil-ey dil mil-ey gul khiley gul khiley gul khiley
jab dil mil-ey tab gul khiley
Phir "ishq" mein aisi AAG LAGE,
Dil dariya mein *TOOFAN UTHE *
hoooo....
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in today's society MILs are very co operative wid their DILs. Common on guys we are living in 2010 not in 1910. I mean grow up. Ab to yeh saas bahu k topic ko baksh do. Dont act like Ekta kapoor's Q K Sas Bi Kabhi Bahu Thi. :-)
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just like those Ekta Kapoor serials....this subject will never really be done, will it?
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^yes you're right...i got confused when women started to talk about lazy women and i thought i wouldn't expect even from my own daughter to be a very hard working woman so how can i expect it from other women whom i don't even know fully?
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i dont think so muzna :-).
No one talk abt Fil n Sil's relationship :-).
MIL should Never dictate.. she should her (DIL) once or twice thats it... should Never enforce her ways onto her.
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For my boys, I want for them each a wife who cares deeply about him and shares his ideas about happiness. She doesnt have to be a rocket scientist and earn more money than Donald Trump...nor does she have to be the perfect home-maker goddess ala Martha Stewart. Just share the same life interests and goals. Love and have a happy life.
arent your boys like 3 and 5?
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Yeah. Thank goodness they're not girls, or they'd be considered spinsters by now.
Should a MIL expect her DIL to be very active who never sits, and do all the cooking, cleaning, washing by herself, and needs very little rest?
Should the MIL tell her off if she doesn't clean properly or doesn't cook at home?
or
Should the MIL care for her and help her?
DIL shud get up 11 AM, make herself up for husband, the both shud go out at 2PM AND TELL MIL ammaan khana pey hamara intezar na kerna
LOL @ TLK.
MIL should care for her and help her and never be offended if the DIL calls her "aunty" instead of ammi.
sooo true:D
MIL should beat the heck out of DIL if she does not cook or clean. And husband should just look the other way and say... Amma let me know when you'r done. Then it will be my turn! :D
Off course she should not demand. But can expect just like DIL can expect nice things from MIL.
amen to that
you are so right, chilly. i have taken the liberty to write a little poem inspired by your message.
dil mil-ey dil mil-ey dil mil-ey gul khiley gul khiley gul khiley
jab dil mil-ey tab gul khiley
Hahahaha!
LOL, i just saw this.. 
I didn’t know you were such a shair Queerio!