Re: So you think…
Exactly.
I don’t understand actually. Either people here are really good in reading between the lines and getting the secret message that pak-one wanted to convey.
Or i am a damn bad reader 
You know, once at university, us students was shown a picture of a fat man sitting on a chair, with one girl on his lap and one standing next to him.
We were told to tell what we see on the picture.
And the responses were:
- The man is a pedophile,
- The man loves the little boy (it was a girl actually) more than the girl (because the ‘boy’ was sitting on his lap and the girl was just standing)
- The girl standing is looking sad, because she is not getting enough love from her father.
- The fat man is a drug and alcohol addict
- The 3 people in the picture are really poor
etc etc etc…
Then we got the hear that it is just a picture of a fat man sitting on a chair, with one girl on his lap and one standing next to him 
Moral of the story: Stop seeing (or reading) things that are not there.
You people always claim to be parhay likhay (and i do believe you. Mushqil mushqil se angrezi alfaaz istemaal karte ho. I often have to use google ji) but then why do you fail to read what is actually written??? :hinna:
Nowhere did he say that you should behave like as you never went outside a pind in Pakistan, and nowhere was written in the original post that you should move back to Pakistan or stop feeling home in America or whatever… 