Re: So you think…
are you arguing for or against maintaining a Pakistani identity here? Not to nitpick, but pashtoons associating with urdu, the nation of Pakistan, etc. are very recent events in the time-span you mention. I am not arguing against being proud of your Pakistani identity, but your arguments don’t back up what you are preaching here, bro. Identities apparently don’t seem to be relevant for over 2-3 generations even in your case.