Personally I find nothing wrong with that but I have a general feelings the female populace of the world does not agree with me?
I mean if a girl rubbed up on to me, I would enjoy it…but that would be desperate right? Or someone offered me sex for a car ride and I accepted that would be such a desperate act right?
But honestly no man would care. Its like yay free sex. Christmas came early this year.
I want the answer to that question too which definitely isn't 'boys will be boys', or it's just their nature'.
Personally, I think it's because of this mind-conditioning... that it has to do with* being** a man... *at least that's how it starts and then it becomes a second nature.
The number of waves that rise in a sea are less than the number of desires that rise in the heart of a man. In order to fulfill each one of them to satisfaction, neither has he enough time in this world nor can he afford enough resources for it. A man who tries to control his illegal desires (by the grace of Allah (swt)) for the Love and fear of Allah (swt), Allah (swt) would fulfil each one of those desires at the highest degree in Jannah, as a reward. And unfortunately, if he fulfills his illegal temptations of nafs by breaking the orders of Allah, then he should be prepared for breakage of those organs/senses at the worst level in hell. But ofcourse, the door of 'Tauba' (repentance) is always wide open for everyone till death, no matter how much dirt one adds to ones soul.
@Topic. A man controlling his illegal desires is higher in degree than angels. And the one who worships lust goes lower in degree than the animals who survive by violating other's rights.
It's just that out of the two, the inferior head receives the greater amount of blood flow.
U see, OP, a person can seek therapy for desperate behvior. But when you're just wired that way....that's biology....it just is. You are desperate by nature....muawhahahaha :p