why do people, specially women, consider it abnormal and unnatural that men have high sex drives and are less discerning than women about sex partners ?
why should women define the sexuality standard for humans?
why do you think its mens sexuality that needs to be 'corrected'
i can equally claim that its womens sexuality that is unnatural and one that needs to be corrected. i have a strong argument to back this claim.... its womens sexuality that is suppressed by society, not mens. so if women were allowed to be sexually liberated, maybe they would become 'more like men'
Jazaa is asexual! Because otherwise that would be Haram! I love his impassioned posts! He registered and revived basically all the old threads he possibly could. That my friend is no easy task.
Kudos brother Abu Bakr Rizvi. Perhaps we should devise a strategy, via PM ofcourse, on how we should tackle the female menace? I'll be waiting for your PM ;)
why do people, specially women, consider it abnormal and unnatural that men have high sex drives and are less discerning than women about sex partners ?
why should women define the sexuality standard for humans?
why do you think its mens sexuality that needs to be 'corrected'
i can equally claim that its womens sexuality that is unnatural and one that needs to be corrected. i have a strong argument to back this claim.... its womens sexuality that is suppressed by society, not mens. so if women were allowed to be sexually liberated, maybe they would become 'more like men'
I think this was meant to be a light-hearted thread (considering the track record of the OP, :p) But WOW...this REALLY REALLY bothers you doesn't it...that women are more discerning when it comes to who they'd like to screw around with for fun? It really bugs you eh? And I wonder why. Men have stronger sexual urges. Women have them too....but from what I've read... differences in hormones play a role in the differences in sexual urges. Perhaps this could also play a role in discernment and other aspects of sex and why women are not "more like men". Allah has created the genders differently. They both differ......in many ways.....not only in sexuality. If it's the "double standards" (of being picky for a casual screw but being more flexible for marriage) that concern you.........then there are so many double standards in society (more serious ones) to contend with and dwell upon. Suppression by society does a play a role in this......but then the biological differences may impact this as well....and taking the latter into consideration......maybe Allah didn't want both genders to have very high sexual urges as it may lead to chaos.
You wanna keep "religion" out of it, but the way I see it.........you can analyze this contradictory phenomenon till the cows come home.......but fact is....what's haram is haram. Gosh, it almost seems like a fixation.
all women are different and i'm pretty sure there are men that have a low sex drive as much as they would want us to think they think about sex every 20 seconds.
there are women that are very sexual beings and probably have sex on their minds just as much as men. I dont think we can make a generalization about either men or women in this regard. b/c i know some women are very sexually charged and they might still not be experienced, are still under control but it just shows us that even if men want to think that women are robots and not sexual beings, generalizations about anything or anybody is silly and will never apply to most
plus men have a certain image to uphold, a desperate man or a man that sleeps around will be seen as much of a man whore or man ho as a woman that sleeps around indiscriminately would be. our conscience tells us as sexually charged as we might feel that there is a line that must not be crossed whether it's not having premarital sex or only having it in a committed relationship....by whichever moral system one goes by regardless of whether the person in question is a man or woman.
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that would be awesome, do share your experience. Good Luck :k:
all women are different and i'm pretty sure there are men that have a low sex drive as much as they would want us to think they think about sex every 20 seconds.
there are women that are very sexual beings and probably have sex on their minds just as much as men. I dont think we can make a generalization about either men or women in this regard. b/c i know some women are very sexually charged and they might still not be experienced, are still under control but it just shows us that even if men want to think that women are robots and not sexual beings, generalizations about anything or anybody is silly and will never apply to most
I'm not saying that differences in hormones is the definite reason behind lower sexual urges in women. I get that people can and do differ in how strong their urges are....but the biological aspect of it is an interesting factor to consider....and that it could possibly play a role in discernment/urges/etc. I used the word "perhaps"....not saying it's absolute. Societal attitudes/expectations can influence this as well. I think that if both genders had very high urges....there may be greater problems in society. Maybe the differences are Allah's ways of creating balance but this doesn't exempt one from being conducting themselves in a responsible manner and trying to understand the needs of one another in a relationship.
Oh is that what you use, Firenze Pai? Do the pills increase stamina in the lower head while depleting the head resting atop your shoulders of brain cells? I guess you use em as compensation for the defect in the latter. Try aqal-enhancing pills.
use your “chashma” to read, i wrote “well i never need it” .. people should not be afraid of their problems, so nisha.. it’s alright.. whole gs is behind you, go tiger (female version)
