So what do you do if husband doesn't like your hijab

[njgal]

Re: So what do you do if husband doesn't like your hijab

First step is to communicate with each other. Put your feelings on the table. Why is it an issue? He knew that she wore hijaab when he got married.

But I can't deny that people and their feelings change over time. However I have seen more cases of the guy becoming more religious and forcing his wife to wear hijaab even if she wasn't willing to so.

Maybe they can come to an agreement - but again I think it's more an issue for the guy to fix the behavior in his self rather than the girl.

[Gr8Heera]

@amir_pindi

^Oh well

In that case i suggest.

You know If you cant get someon on the right out of love.

Then Time to try out of FEAR

She should explain him the importanc eof wearing hijab, and the punhismnets awaiting her for not doing so.

And i thnk the lady shud be somwhat comprimsing too to her husband until he gets more relgious.

She is not obligated to wear tha big black cloak/unaya thingie, nor is she obligated to cover her face.

She can cover herself, suficiently with a normal head-scarf, normal and loose clothing.

And personally i think the black grimreaper ladies stand out and attract more attention than ladies who r not grimreapers.

Boy i have an exam tomorw..and im addicted ot gup.shup

i hope i passs…

LOL

Shukking on Nikki didi on a serious matter is too funny. LOL

Nikki didi first mistake was boy wasn’t mazhabi and girl was mazhabi that was so wrong. PPl have to consider that thing at the time of marriage to get to this point.

Sharabi kababi say mazhabi larki ki shadi was so wrong. Even sharabi kababion ka jhurmut main rehnay walay pay asar to sharabi kababi ka hi ho ga na to aisay say shadi zulm hai kisi mazhabi larki kay saath.

Mazhabi larki kay liaay larkay ka mazhabi hona zaroori tha na kay uski family ka. Yay bhi mistake tha shadi ka chunao kartay waqt.

Mundarjabala ghaltiaan to ub reverse naheen ki sakteen laikin shadi kay waqt khiaal rakhna chahyay.

As always bohat achcha point note kar kay mention karnay walay gr8 Mirch bhai nain kaha hai kay mismatch. I agree with him they are mismatch.

Larka aur bhi kai ya kisi aur wajah ya wajoohaat ki bina pay larki say nalaan bhi ho sakta hai jiska ghussa us kay parday pay utar raha hai.

Ub teen options hain Ya to larki ussay

1. tame kar lay yani apni unglion pay nachnay wala bana lay ya
2. chor day ya
3. uskay mutabiq dhal jaay

In main say aik bhi option asan naheen. Time aur mahnat along with Allah ki madad ki zaroorat hai.

Sharabi kababi ki khushi kay liaay aik mazhabi larki mazhab chor day to intehai bewaqoofi hai meray hisaab say. Meray hisaab say to sharabi kababi ko do lutti mar dena chahyay agar buchchay na hon to aur doosri shadi kar leni chahyay. I know it’s not easy but Allah pay bharosa madad karay ga.

Mazhab ko shohar ki khush pay naheen chora ja sakta wo bhi sharabi kababi ki khushi kay liaay.

I know ppl ask to the mazhabi girl to go bayparda in mehfils, makeup, even ask to use swiming suit in sea side to a pardaydar girl. Those men are bayghairat who this to a religious girl and those girls are bayghairat who go like that when husband ask not to go like that in public.

Try to tame him. Stop for some times to go to religious things at all. Spend time with him and home. If cover face she can open her face as it is allowed. See if it changes his behaviour or thinking.

Go to movies is the best suggestion for a religious girl LOL. ha ha ha.

In a very polite way slowly give him religious informations. Also about parda as someone suggested.

Check and find out what other things from your side bothers him. There must me other things too.

My prayers for that girl. Allah uski help karay. Ameen.

[jaanaan]

too much of anything, including religion, is bad. and as you said she has been spending too much time on religion, i think she should back off a bit and try to be good for her husband. i am not sure if God will have a problem with that.

[Einstein1]

Re: So what do you do if husband doesn't like your hijab

**"So what do you do if husband doesn't like your hijab"

Take him to the "cholha", light it up when its hot put his hand in it n when he does ah oh and takes his hand out from the "cholha", tell him that is the fire of this earth and the fire of hell is alot hotter so the choice is his whether he wants to burn in hell in the life after this one or not.**

[Gr8Heera]

@Einstein1

"So what do you do if husband doesn't like your hijab"

Take him to the "cholha", light it up when its hot put his hand in it n when he does ah oh and takes his hand out from the "cholha", tell him that is the fire of this earth and the fire of hell is alot hotter so the choice is his whether he wants to burn in hell in the life after this one or not.

Wow a gr8 idea. Religion doesn't tell us to do that.

Aur jub uskay jalay hathon ka chamat paray ga to bechari ko din main taray ya asman pay jaa kay taraay nazar aa jain gay.