LOL
Shukking on Nikki didi on a serious matter is too funny. LOL
Nikki didi first mistake was boy wasn’t mazhabi and girl was mazhabi that was so wrong. PPl have to consider that thing at the time of marriage to get to this point.
Sharabi kababi say mazhabi larki ki shadi was so wrong. Even sharabi kababion ka jhurmut main rehnay walay pay asar to sharabi kababi ka hi ho ga na to aisay say shadi zulm hai kisi mazhabi larki kay saath.
Mazhabi larki kay liaay larkay ka mazhabi hona zaroori tha na kay uski family ka. Yay bhi mistake tha shadi ka chunao kartay waqt.
Mundarjabala ghaltiaan to ub reverse naheen ki sakteen laikin shadi kay waqt khiaal rakhna chahyay.
As always bohat achcha point note kar kay mention karnay walay gr8 Mirch bhai nain kaha hai kay mismatch. I agree with him they are mismatch.
Larka aur bhi kai ya kisi aur wajah ya wajoohaat ki bina pay larki say nalaan bhi ho sakta hai jiska ghussa us kay parday pay utar raha hai.
Ub teen options hain Ya to larki ussay
- tame kar lay yani apni unglion pay nachnay wala bana lay ya
- chor day ya
- uskay mutabiq dhal jaay
In main say aik bhi option asan naheen. Time aur mahnat along with Allah ki madad ki zaroorat hai.
Sharabi kababi ki khushi kay liaay aik mazhabi larki mazhab chor day to intehai bewaqoofi hai meray hisaab say. Meray hisaab say to sharabi kababi ko do lutti mar dena chahyay agar buchchay na hon to aur doosri shadi kar leni chahyay. I know it’s not easy but Allah pay bharosa madad karay ga.
Mazhab ko shohar ki khush pay naheen chora ja sakta wo bhi sharabi kababi ki khushi kay liaay.
I know ppl ask to the mazhabi girl to go bayparda in mehfils, makeup, even ask to use swiming suit in sea side to a pardaydar girl. Those men are bayghairat who this to a religious girl and those girls are bayghairat who go like that when husband ask not to go like that in public.
Try to tame him. Stop for some times to go to religious things at all. Spend time with him and home. If cover face she can open her face as it is allowed. See if it changes his behaviour or thinking.
Go to movies is the best suggestion for a religious girl LOL. ha ha ha.
In a very polite way slowly give him religious informations. Also about parda as someone suggested.
Check and find out what other things from your side bothers him. There must me other things too.
My prayers for that girl. Allah uski help karay. Ameen.