So Very Confused!

[goinginsane]

Re: So Very Confused!

@StrangeOne

The facebook thing is if you find his profile he might have photographs with his girlfriends or of getting high. It’s quite easy to hide your partying pictures but a lot of people who’re partying don’t care. It might just be the proof your father needs to doubt his decision. If you have brother you could enlist him to add him. Although I’ve seen sometimes that saving face is more important than any bad habits he might have.

And definitely do an Istakara. It might sound weird but it’s helped me a couple of time including getting a cousin’s proposal off my back. My father’s brother started asking my father since I was 19 and it continued for 5 years!!! I danced at his wedding this year because I was definitely happier than him.

And I know an older couple who did the* I will divorce you if you don’t let our daughter marry my brother’s son. *Well the parents are still married but the daughter isn’t. The guy was forcibly married and had a couple of girlfriends throughout the marriage. So if you think that keeping peace now will keep peace later than think again.

Op, you’re in a difficult position but you have one thing on your side and that’s some bit of time. Continue your education and maybe the guy will lose his mind do something your whole extended family can’t ignore.

Couldn’t find anything on his FB
And yeah lets hope he does something so meri jaan chut jaye