omg - what you just described is my worst nightmare… and i am in the same position as you that I am going to have to order my dress …
I am not even going to be able to go to pakistan at all so fittings are out of the question. Since nothing I have ever gotten from pakistan has ever fit me right (even when a sample kameez has been sent) … this has me really freaked out.
Focus more on everything else … focus on the shaadi itself and look forward to wearing your walima dress if you are let down by the shaadi jora. We are pakistani and lucky that we have the opportunity to have two bridals! Try to foucs on positives hun and dont let this effect you too much so that it takes away from such a happy time in your … easier said than done because I can truly understand how disappointed you are.
and btw- i am the same type of bride as you… i am not going to show anyone my bridal (except my mom and sister) before the actual wedding…
Focus more on everything else … focus on the shaadi itself and look forward to wearing your walima dress if you are let down by the shaadi jora. We are pakistani and lucky that we have the opportunity to have two bridals! Try to foucs on positives hun and dont let this effect you too much so that it takes away from such a happy time in your … easier said than done because I can truly understand how disappointed you are.