so the **** hit the fan, ....

[Paheli00]

Re: so the **** hit the fan, …

@nadz123

OK.

FIRSTLY, i have lived here and been here altogether, around 2 years. a year now, and after marriage etc, so the time has been around 2 years i think, and in this entire time the whole underwear thing has happened 3 TIMES. not every flipping month do i give her underwear to wash. i wash my own. the first time mil told me not t give her dirty underwear, i said ok, il clean them first. ..

Honestly Nadz…you should just post 1 original post and NOT add any more. Because the more you post after that…the worse you end up looking.

I honestly believed that your MIL acted crazy over-the-top and that she should NOT have involved your husband and made a big scene. I believed that she should’ve come to you had a private conversation. But after reading the above…now I’m not too sure I blame your MIL for creating a scene.

In 2 YEARS you already know that your MIL is a drama queen. Now you admit that MIL herself has brought up this underwear issue before not once…but THREE times to you! After the THIRD frigging time…it still didn’t occur to you that maybe you should just find the time to wash your own?!

Yes, your MIL doesn’t ask you or encourage you to cook or clean. You are not at fault for that. But given that fact that you’re not forced (heck MIL actually doesn’t want you to!) cook or clean…do you not think you could’ve taken it upon yourself to wash your own underwear after the MIL brought up the issue to you the THIRD time?!

As for the kaamwali…what she gets paid and how she lives isn’t your concern. Whether you like it or now…the kaamwali doesn’t answer to you. You are not her employer…your MIL is.